<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 18:13:44 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/purityculture/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Tearing Down the Purity Culture Wall]]></title><description><![CDATA[I had a wall within my heart. It was called purity culture. If you're not familiar with purity culture, please see more of my posts on this subject, especially my review of The Scarlet Virgins. But here's]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/emotions/@joelhorst/tearingdownthepurityculturewall-pmf3xmi5f8</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/emotions/@joelhorst/tearingdownthepurityculturewall-pmf3xmi5f8</guid><category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[joelhorst]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 25 May 2019 11:57:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/23KQwnog7Q1jpM7UGv2VYxz52nnzQ7DYwgRiZeQ1USDWNUWysoA9y8g9FkhiZAbpQVq3qnmehvPKhwE3QdpEWvXoSosHhPk?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Social Media Fallout from Sexual Assault]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this solo episode, recorded via phone, Rebecca discusses some of the issues that come about from social media fallout of sexual assault. They include: Projection Healthy Boundaries Bullying from other]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/social-media-fallout-from-sexual-assault</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/social-media-fallout-from-sexual-assault</guid><category><![CDATA[podcast]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2018 17:39:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fertility and Purity Culture]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Rebecca discussing the second most important part of a woman's identity in purity culture: fertility. If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s content like media appearances, more podcast]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/fertility/@rebeccalemke/fertility-and-purity-culture</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/fertility/@rebeccalemke/fertility-and-purity-culture</guid><category><![CDATA[fertility]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2018 15:49:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Podcast Episodes #44 and #45]]></title><description><![CDATA[#44 - Pain and Anger as a Blessing In this episode, Rebecca discusses how our pain and anger from our experiences can actually be a blessing. Listen Online Listen in iTunes #45 - Which is Worse, Promiscuity]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/pain/@rebeccalemke/podcast-episodes-44-and-45</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/pain/@rebeccalemke/podcast-episodes-44-and-45</guid><category><![CDATA[pain]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2018 14:04:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Courtship at Ground Zero]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode Rebecca interviews Kenny Lyons, a young man who has experienced the ramifications of the courtship movement firsthand. Listen in iTunes Listen Online If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/relationships/@rebeccalemke/courtship-at-ground-zero</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/relationships/@rebeccalemke/courtship-at-ground-zero</guid><category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2018 14:12:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Innocence in Marriage]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Rebecca discusses purity and innocence after marriage and throughout life. Listen in iTunes Listen Online If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s content like media appearances, more]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/innocence/@rebeccalemke/innocence-in-marriage</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/innocence/@rebeccalemke/innocence-in-marriage</guid><category><![CDATA[innocence]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2018 14:53:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Interview with Disruptive Love Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[My latest podcast interview. My normal take on purity culture, with a bit more redpill than usual. Disruptive love interview]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/interview-with-disruptive-love-podcast</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/interview-with-disruptive-love-podcast</guid><category><![CDATA[purityculture]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2018 17:01:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bridging Generational Gaps in Purity Culture]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Rebecca discusses understanding and bridging the generational gap in thinking about purity culture and courtship. Listen Online Listen in iTunes If you would like to find more of Rebecca’s]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/millennials/@rebeccalemke/bridging-generational-gaps-in-purity-culture</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/millennials/@rebeccalemke/bridging-generational-gaps-in-purity-culture</guid><category><![CDATA[millennials]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2018 13:50:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Taylor Swift Mixtape of Life Lessons]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've been a fan of Taylor Swift's from the moment I heard "Our Song" when I was a young teen. My best friend and I used to set our cell phone ringtones to Taylor Swift songs and then not answer]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/steempress/@raymondspeaks/mytaylorswiftmixtapeoflifelessons-4we076wn2c</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/steempress/@raymondspeaks/mytaylorswiftmixtapeoflifelessons-4we076wn2c</guid><category><![CDATA[steempress]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[raymondspeaks]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2018 14:01:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2r8F9rTBenJR53dTPqZFKz9AGBUffgkRjFmBExRde1W89w1CMjLmrWKCvB1eHoWYzki4vNXryeiN3f9dbiSzqaskPraLJh6KUWhdhmB4fXVzRBri92y4EzhC2XYvWQMZG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Book Review of The Scarlet Virgins by Sisters of Katie Luther]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have not cried this hard in a long time. Huge, huge thank you to Sisters of Katie Luther, I am so honored that they have reviewed my book, I had no idea until a friend sent it to me. Words fail to express]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/bookreview/@rebeccalemke/book-review-of-the-scarlet-virgins-by-sisters-of-katie-luther</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/bookreview/@rebeccalemke/book-review-of-the-scarlet-virgins-by-sisters-of-katie-luther</guid><category><![CDATA[bookreview]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2018 22:30:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Dynamics of Sex - The Scarlet Virgins Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this episode, Rebecca discusses the dynamics of sex within purity culture and the focus on destruction rather than creation. 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If you would like to find more of Rebecca's]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/the-ways-purity-culture-led-to-developing-anorexia</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/the-ways-purity-culture-led-to-developing-anorexia</guid><category><![CDATA[purityculture]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2018 18:43:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why You Shouldn't Fake it]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you've been raised in purity culture, sex can be incredibly frustrating and you may be tempted to fake an orgasm to make your spouse happy...but don't! 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This is a podcast episode that has been adapted from my article “How To Get Used To Sex When You’ve Been Raised To Be Ashamed”: If you’ve been raised in purity culture and have trouble owning]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/owning-sexuality-the-scarlet-virgins-podcast</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/owning-sexuality-the-scarlet-virgins-podcast</guid><category><![CDATA[podcast]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Dec 2017 18:02:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e5vpasbPpmkbJMAyEhBswrBfdmRRRCa2A5c?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Discernment in Recovery Groups]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Scarlet Virgins Episode #26 – Discernment in Recovery Groups For folks who are recovering from childhood abuses (legalism, physical abuse, cults, etc), recovery groups seem like a good resource for]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/discernment-in-recovery-groups</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/podcast/@rebeccalemke/discernment-in-recovery-groups</guid><category><![CDATA[podcast]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Dec 2017 01:25:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e5psyCBfzYSC94ENu9xWjJVbdATe4852GnJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[10 Tips for Dealing With a Sexually Frigid Spouse]]></title><description><![CDATA[My most recent podcast episode is out! #27 - 10 Tips for Dealing With a Sexually Frigid Spouse Purity culture often reinforces frigid behaviors that already are impressed upon women when it comes to sex.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/10-tips-for-dealing-with-a-sexually-frigid-spouse</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/purityculture/@rebeccalemke/10-tips-for-dealing-with-a-sexually-frigid-spouse</guid><category><![CDATA[purityculture]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[rebeccalemke]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2017 17:43:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e9sjCHQbyiihKNtVW9T8cA8pHKnfUR8uvMU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>