<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 12:51:49 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/self-forgiveness/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Self-punishment | What we need to know?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Suffering doesn't improve us as a better person! Yeah, it may sound totally opposite to what we believe and learned so far. But it's the hard truth. Suffering can make us learn many life lessons, it can]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/hive-123046/@zeesh/self-punishment-or-what-we-need-to-know</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/hive-123046/@zeesh/self-punishment-or-what-we-need-to-know</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-123046]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[zeesh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 10:17:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4HFqJv9qRjVecs4xkhd5EvhidWEEBnn9tCVDBkBhQpUFvab78MhbU1VvqzjYbJYiAxQWLHZsts6A1YLpLLVYRrs2xprets1u7wbB7EU5HCf3JE4FVPFjMmh2zbap1qurUtgVacAqMhuRt1EntfyoULdkhRmyvqYuhBt?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 77- Self-Betrayal]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 77- Self-Betrayal Still dealing with the fallout of self-betrayal as taking in beer that I wasn’t prepared to take in. The “interesting” thing about real self-betrayal is that the]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-77-self-betrayal</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2021 19:58:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 76- Self-Abuse]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 76- Self-Abuse I had a moment yesterday where I knew I should not have participated in a certain scenario, but I did it anyway. I went into a people-pleasing character and drank a]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-abuse/@tylersr/day-76-self-abuse</guid><category><![CDATA[self-abuse]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 20:05:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 72- Stopping the People-Pleaser Character]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 72- Stopping the People-Pleaser Character The other day as I was preparing to go over to an acquaintance's house, something arose within me that told me unequivocally to "STOP!]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-care/@tylersr/day-72-stopping-the-people-pleaser-character</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-care/@tylersr/day-72-stopping-the-people-pleaser-character</guid><category><![CDATA[self-care]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2021 05:03:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rgRT3nTwT54WzyBWrMt24cQ2n5zxHxeSXU1itKAczdBhFWm8SQy4KFsjYjcykcx3ZVJzJfWvDvW?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cross-posted from Day 71- Exploring Self-Responsibility I have noticed a tendency within me to want to cover all bases in terms of my self-development so that I don’t have to have uncomfortable interactions]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-71-exploring-self-responsibility</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2021 07:15:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who or What is Behind Carelessness?]]></title><link>http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/carelessness/@tylersr/who-or-what-is-behind-carelessness</guid><category><![CDATA[carelessness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 05:17:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 68- Why is Nobody Helping Me?A thought came up the other day that ‘I am not getting the feedback I need/deserve from other Destonians’. I have been participating on the forum for 9 years. When]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/day-68-why-is-nobody-helping-me</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2020 02:28:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See)]]></title><description><![CDATA[} From Day 67- Redefining and Living Apathy (A-Path-I-See) The process I used to explore this word can be found here: Self-Allocation For me, I can remember developing a certain sense of apathy in my childhood]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/apathy/@tylersr/day-67-redefining-and-living-apathy-a-path-i-see</guid><category><![CDATA[apathy]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2020 09:58:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Process Support: Don't Do Self Forgiveness from the Perspective of Shame]]></title><description><![CDATA[Process support. When doing self-forgiveness, don't feel shame or guilt. It is a tool to transcend the mind, not an indictment. For support, visit the forum: forum.desteni.org Desteni DIP Lite - FREE online]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/process-support-don-t-do-self-forgiveness-from-the-perspective-of-shame</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2020 19:52:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eHwvjCm1yZ1P4cQXkiY3ibJ3VXFjY7QASj8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Day 62- Fearing Sleeping]]></title><description><![CDATA[Copied from Day 62- Fearing Sleeping Today there was a moment where I could see that what I was on my way to do wasn't what was best for me, but I continued on to do the thing I had set out to do anyway.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/energy/@tylersr/day-62-fearing-sleeping</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/energy/@tylersr/day-62-fearing-sleeping</guid><category><![CDATA[energy]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2020 17:35:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP35bVGjGoE93K3E4U5KX8KtMBJ2rhmhn3rHgLPKUxfSSzFq1m9bKgLhpY1DWo5XDBTkq6kpTyDboLLphSLwHpPciwNUnEAP1SFUL5U?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[sf 6/21/19]]></title><description><![CDATA[it’s gotten to the point where i’m actually sabotaging myself. i forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to sabotage myself i forgive myself that i’ve not allowed myself to not realize that sabotaging]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/sf-6-21-19</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/sf-6-21-19</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Jun 2019 10:24:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[turning a reaction to 'disrespect towards others' into a realization that the pattern starts with self. and respecting self]]></title><description><![CDATA[as i come out of a depressive state, i am presented with opportunities to reconnect with people-at-large. as my psychiatrist mentioned, there will be times when i retreat back into depression and it’s]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/turning-a-reaction-to-disrespect-towards-others-into-a-realization-that-the-pattern-starts-with-self-and-respecting-self</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/turning-a-reaction-to-disrespect-towards-others-into-a-realization-that-the-pattern-starts-with-self-and-respecting-self</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2019 08:15:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self-forgiveness 1-16-19]]></title><description><![CDATA[Something I have noticed within myself is a tendency to want to implement changes from the perspective of mind-over-matter rather than making decisions within the moment. There is something about control]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/self-forgiveness-1-16-19</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/self-forgiveness-1-16-19</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2019 17:48:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self-forgiveness]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's one of those elusive things in life. It's one thing to forgive yourself for what you did, and another to forgive yourself for what you didn't. What about forgiving yourself for the ways you hurt others,]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/psychology/@igider/self-forgiveness</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/psychology/@igider/self-forgiveness</guid><category><![CDATA[psychology]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[igider]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jul 2018 12:29:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/Zskj9C56UonWToSX8tGXNY8jeXKSedJ2aRhGRj6HDecqrebzDdUq9kgouCLicRy2KajNH19HrdiGcnzDgSdpU2uLFHkJe7kqwNhXoF5uDD6giAsigFkA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Zombie-Mode | How we Choose to be Incapacitated]]></title><description><![CDATA[At times parenthood means sleepless nights, irregular sleep patterns, and being pushed to the brink of exhaustion. You'll feel tired cause you are tired and really need to take it easy. But there are other]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/parenting/@maitezamora/zombie-mode-or-how-we-choose-to-be-incapacitated</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/parenting/@maitezamora/zombie-mode-or-how-we-choose-to-be-incapacitated</guid><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[maitezamora]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2018 15:50:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/vM1pGHgNcyCiaxZmdb555hkjecmqomntNdRp7jgAi5Vc6awxyRmvNHKbbbHTcyFSMuP91CQko2MZ9EUAtwD1vBRic1cPrg7r3MBr7vokNvkV3anXwD1WiehQhujNENfuEBtGqae?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[People Pleaser Personality - Self-Forgiveness and Self-Corrective Statements]]></title><description><![CDATA[There was an opportunity after work where I had a moment to myself and instead of using that time to move myself in a way that was best for me, I instead moved myself in a way that I believed would please]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/people-pleaser/@tylersr/people-pleaser-personality-self-forgiveness-and-self-corrective-statements</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/people-pleaser/@tylersr/people-pleaser-personality-self-forgiveness-and-self-corrective-statements</guid><category><![CDATA[people-pleaser]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2018 11:40:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[I feel sad right now - Part 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[So it seems like I am still participating within the self-sabotage pattern identified in this post. This warrants another look at the pattern. I forgive myself for continuing to deny myself self-expression]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now-part-2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now-part-2</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2018 12:53:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[On Money and Self-Forgiveness]]></title><description><![CDATA[Imagine a world where you have to pay interest on the money you borrow to buy the things you require. And that the life you are living isn’t even the one you want. Thus is the predicament of modern living:]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/money/@tylersr/on-money-and-self-forgiveness</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/money/@tylersr/on-money-and-self-forgiveness</guid><category><![CDATA[money]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2018 09:55:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[self forgiveness – silence – the word silence]]></title><description><![CDATA[Self – forgiveness – silence – the word silence I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear silence because I am expecting silence to be broken by noise and backchats or voices in]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/psychology/@tormod/self-forgiveness-silence-the-word-silence</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/psychology/@tormod/self-forgiveness-silence-the-word-silence</guid><category><![CDATA[psychology]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tormod]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2018 17:56:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2r8F9rTBenJR3iqPxDrevHK3vDeQGnHc8Wj8C8negiemB1cxKecKj8u7wW7Y4Bsr6Ruv7pf7hfYb1irGmeZW6uTLa3WWEWq4fKxD897DLK3oJp3f4JRiJoVe1inHJgAvz?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[I feel sad right now.]]></title><description><![CDATA[I experienced a moment where I had an opportunity to express myself in a really cool way. I didn’t follow through so now I am dealing with sadness. I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/self-forgiveness/@tylersr/i-feel-sad-right-now</guid><category><![CDATA[self-forgiveness]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[tylersr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2018 14:15:15 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>