<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 08:47:43 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/created/shesaid/rss.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[아.. 정답이 뭘까? ]]></title><description><![CDATA[브런치... 아이를 어린이집에 들여보내고 찾아온 혼자 시간이다. 어젠 나에게 꾸벅인사도 잘하고 손도 흔들어주며 신발장에서부터 선생님 손 꼭 잡고 어렵지 않게 들어가더니 오늘은 내 품에서 떨어지지 않기는 물론 닭똥 같은 눈물 흘리며 겨우내 떨어져 인사를 하고 나왔다. 어제. 아이는 많이 힘들었나보다. 얼마나 부자가 되려고? 자존감을 얼마나 회복하려고..? 다시]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/kr/@sunnyy/4zbrj2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/kr/@sunnyy/4zbrj2</guid><category><![CDATA[kr]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[sunnyy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2019 01:04:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/7ohP4GDMGPrUMp8dW6yuJTR9MKNu8P8DCXDU9qmmorAMi5Ep4uWpsJ5RAqSMCW2GX2gcbjHWfzjBYfgxqJXZcJiKhgxeycyYTChD?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Keeping Score]]></title><description><![CDATA[The idea of keeping score in any relationship is not going to end well.  At one time I kept score on many things. I am talking about keeping score on the extreme.  In a relationship keeping score]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-keeping-score</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-keeping-score</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[carey-page]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2018 22:58:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 5 - Keeping Score]]></title><description><![CDATA[Early in our relationship I really struggled with this idea of how keeping score was harmful to our relationship.  For me, this was all about setting expectations and if my wife did not meet those]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-5-keeping-score</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-5-keeping-score</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2018 22:50:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 4 - Making Choices for the Family]]></title><description><![CDATA[Back in 2003 I started to study homeopathy.  My reasons for that was our oldest son was affected by vaccines and the school wanted me to put him on medication to "help" him.  I told them I would]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-4-making-choices-for-the-family</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-4-making-choices-for-the-family</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[carey-page]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2018 18:08:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 4 - Making choices for the family]]></title><description><![CDATA[In 2003, my wife started studying to be a Heilkunst Homeopathic Practitioner and she would travel to Ottawa each summer for classes.  It was during these summer jaunts out east that she was introduced]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-4-making-choices-for-the-family</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-4-making-choices-for-the-family</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2018 18:07:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 3 - Sharing the Work Load]]></title><description><![CDATA[For those who are new to my blog. This series is a joint post between myself and my husband. He is sitting here beside me writing his view on this topic.  We wanted to show the differences]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-3-sharing-the-work-load</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-3-sharing-the-work-load</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[carey-page]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Feb 2018 15:55:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 3 - Sharing the Work Load]]></title><description><![CDATA[Finding ways for two independent people to share a life can be challenging, but also very rewarding.  Living off grid comes with a lot of work, especially when we were building everything ourselves.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-3-sharing-the-work-load</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-3-sharing-the-work-load</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Feb 2018 15:51:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 2 - Lost in Translation]]></title><description><![CDATA[For those who are new to my blog, this series of posts is a joint post between myself and my wife @carey-page.  She is sitting here beside me writing her views on this same topic.  We wanted]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-2-lost-in-translation</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-week-2-lost-in-translation</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2018 15:39:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Week 2 - Lost In Translation]]></title><description><![CDATA[For those who are new to my blog. This series is a joint post between myself and my husband. He is sitting here beside me writing his view on this topic.  We wanted to show the differences between]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-2-lost-in-translation</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@carey-page/he-said-she-said-week-2-lost-in-translation</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[carey-page]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Jan 2018 15:39:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/0x0/https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/26815273_1717604331631402_2992721401788927755_n.jpg?oh=61e8560f6c2a15874c71cb52e0869719&amp;oe=5AF42655" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He Said / She Said - Managing Money]]></title><description><![CDATA[The old me I have the advantage of hindsight now, but prior to 2001, I was naive and an emotional / mental abuser.  I was an individual who focused on intellect as I have a high IQ, so I can use it]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-managing-money</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/he-said-she-said-managing-money</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2018 17:38:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/SiQni9EsHGrDsSebvYJSakjs4yW5gzGqTWdX8tdmc5UyT8wHEjdzfDSHuVCeFNUd3C7CB78ckAFfbBnjKJh3RSNHZnUErHHMZ4Ry7PTS7CxhcYkra5uaSiXTBiP2UuNWwzqQ5zV2Xnrhn5Zp2qTv48LVpJKgLXdiXrbpaRs1x8Ax2TZQ4bVasiU2L319p2Yn1zyZja?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Introduction to a joint blog post between husband and wife - He said / She said]]></title><description><![CDATA[@carey-page and I have been married for over 23 years and known one another for nearly 30.  We have gone through our ups and downs.  We decided to introduce a new blog idea where we will each]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/introduction-to-a-joint-blog-post-between-husband-and-wife-he-said-she-said</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/reconcilingrelationships/@wwf/introduction-to-a-joint-blog-post-between-husband-and-wife-he-said-she-said</guid><category><![CDATA[reconcilingrelationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[wwf]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2018 16:22:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/SiQni9EsHGrDsSebvYJSakjs4yW5gzGqTWdX8tdmc5UyT8wHEjdzfDSHuVCeFNUd3C7CB78ckAFfbBnjKJh3RSNHZnUErHHMZ4Ry7PTS7CxhcYkra5uaSiXTBiP2UuNWwzqQ5zV2Xnrhn5Zp2qTv48LVpJKgLXdiXrbpaRs1x8Ax2TZQ4bVasiU2L319p2Yn1zyZja?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>