It's not the same! ...

Freedom and debauchery...Why I say this?

Because free will, many people misrepresent it, is not doing what we want, going through life blaming others for our decisions, it is taking responsibility and assuming the consequences of our actions!

Freedom connects us with the right to exercise our decisions, our choices, from a sense of responsibility to ourselves and to others.

Debauchery leads us to live from debauchery, with lack of control and absence of limits. And this, without a doubt, often leads us to have problems in our relationships and in any field of action.

I will always say that life without freedom has no meaning.

Now, do you use your decision-making power to live freely and without ties?

Understanding it avoids so many things, and misunderstandings.

Freedom is that one chooses it, not that it is imposed on you ... To assume consequences and if we make a mistake, then to choose again keeping in mind always that it did not work and without the previous choice, it sounds beautiful, but it is very complicated, more not impossible

From this approach Freedom is to live your life without hiding anything even from yourself, freedom is to love without fear and no barrier, freedom is to decide fully, without doubts or fears what will happen tomorrow, freedom is also to let go even if it hurts.

For me, freedom is to feel that my life is a gift worth fighting for until the last day, no matter when it lasted. Nowadays, I enjoy my husband, my mother, my children and my wounds, as well as laughing, even though I am often broken from head to toe.

I am free to feel responsible for myself, assume mistakes and learn from that, so as not to repeat, freedom is to get away from toxic people, it is not to follow the majority in the herd, to have my own criteria and not to let myself be manipulated.

We are social beings and no matter how much freedom we want to exercise, we can never make choices that affect others in the sense of harming them.

*We can always change. I love my freedom. I like my solitude. And I love the place where I live!. *

I remember, many years ago, there were other challenges in parenting. My religion teacher at the age of 16 did not explain about freedom and responsibility. Imagine, more than 30 years ago in my school there were religion classes, a public school in a village. We also had philosophy, most of my classmates graduated from a university degree. Speak about freedom brought me to that moment.

Today schools are a whole topic and sometimes the children come back with everything, but sometimes nothing positive. Anyway, working with children is hard.

There is no freedom, if we do not have self-knowledge.

The limits are very intrinsic to everyone. Therefore, freedom implies being responsible and not doing what we want, that's not the point, it's the free will of what we are choosing and what we are doing, committing ourselves to choosing and renouncing the rest.

So according to this that I think and write, I am free and my secret ingredient, is to choosing responsibly.

It is important to talk about these issues, without a doubt. Which concept do you connect with in order to live? Freedom or debauchery?, see you in comments...

Janitze.