Question of questions. The chicken or the egg. When does a psychologist need a psychologist? And does he need one at all?
I am not a psychologist at all, but I have always coped very well with my own problems. I was even better at helping to understand other people's problems when they asked me for advice. Consequently, I never had depression or other serious health problems. To standard doctors' questions, my standard answer is no. I go to appointments so infrequently that my medical records are always lost, it's even funny. Hopefully, in the age of digitalization, this will stop happening. But my country of corruption still lives with paper documents written by hand on printed forms...
So today I was thinking about a personal psychologist. I'm fine with everything around me, except for the fact that I go through life alone. And that's also not a problem for me anymore, I feel comfortable. Is that normal? I think I would have more questions for a psychologist than he does for me. It is more likely that I would be more interesting at the visit with him than with him. But the firm thought of visiting the first professional visited me just today. I don't know if I'll do it anytime soon or within a year, but I definitely will. I know myself, if I have a request, it goes on my to-do list that isn't on paper. But it's always with me, and it gets done sooner or later 5 seconds before....
This is basically how my every post is written. Takes a phrase or question out of my head and writes whatever comes to mind on that topic. This is how the most amazing things in my life have happened. Trips to another city, hiking unfamiliar places and meeting new people. Life is never planned, it just happens every day. There are no psychologists or teachers around. Rather, every person and event that happens is a teacher and a psychologist at the same time. Every minute is an appointment with a specialist. How it will be we decide for ourselves...
In the end, I come to the point again that it is important to be in harmony with yourself. Nothing and no one will help you like you will help yourself. Nothing and no one will justify your actions. Nothing will affect your accomplishments if you really want it. Motivation, energy, kindness, sincerity, spirit. If it all comes from the outside, it's a temporary pill. If it comes from within, it's a constant, changing the world around you. And no one else will see it but you. I see it. It's very awesome!
The question remained a question. But I'm going to see a psychologist, though.
That's it!
Let's move on! Hive Five! Hive ON!
