Your Life - Your Choice

The Choice is Yours - Always
I'm not able to change your life, because I don't know you, but you certainly can. I have found that it's ideas that literally change everything in our life, as long as you put those ideas into action.
Life Happens

In life, you should only ever be doing one of two things. You should either be figuring out what you're most passionate about, what your dreams are in life. OR two you should be realizing those passions, realizing those dreams, by doing something everyday to make it your reality.
The first one is much harder for most people, the reality of life is you may never know what your passion is, once you have this nailed down you can move to the second one. Once you know what your passion is , you need to strive to make your passion your reality, your life, your existence. When you have figured out what you are passionate about you cannot be stopped, you will not stop. You will have a purpose in your life, you will actually have a life you want to live, instead of just existing. Sometimes you need to look inside yourself to see what you really want.

Commitment

If you know what you want to do, you need to commit to yourself, not just for a day, a week or even a month.... those are just the starting points. You need to commit your entire life to doing it, and you'll either get really close or you'll die trying, either way you will be living your life.

Passion

What are you passionate about? Take time to think about it.
What does it mean to have passion?

Passion is a strong desire that can get you to do amazing things. Passion is an emotion to be acted upon. Without action, passion yields no worthwhile results. Passion is the fuel in the fire of action. When you have passion for something, you love it even when you hate it.
You can become the kind of person that is so in tune with the values that you have and what you actually want that when feelings rise up, you can choose to act or to not act. However you want. despite them, even if you're tired, you still go to the gym, even if you're annoyed with your spouse ,you can still speak in a manner that's loving. Even you don't feel like doing that hard work, you do it anyway

You can still push yourself to do it. Your feelings are a choice, your behavior and your thoughts are also a choice. Several people live to be a hundred years old. They have great lives they have great kids. The kids go to college and all sorts of stuff. But somewhere in their life, there was a point where they had a decision to make. They can go left or right on this path. Left was the easy route, right was a hard route. Allowed to take the easy route and they had a good life that way. But the better life is going to the right side. And you may have twenty years of pain and suffering to get past it so a lot of us never want to start that journey.