with the recent drama happening in my country I am even more in doubt about humans, like its a mystery to understand this species called humans, before now I am someone who really do not give a thing about love talk or feelings, I knew right from time that there is more beyond the human emotional feelings called love,
I am not really surprised at this happening in my country flying all over the social media space, the dramas about love saga is really becoming a thing, I have always want to enquire about human nature as it has to do with managing our emotions, actions, reactions and behavioral patterns
this is more reason why I want to do a master degree on psychology to try to understand the human make up, what are the factors that makes who we are, how do we function, how do we think act and react, because basically I think it seems we derive our self esteem from others, its more like who do people say we are, how is my effect to others and now it seems we're basking with this reality of who ever people say we are, this is the reason why most persons are suffering from low self esteem, personality crisis,.identity issues.
A young teenager in my country who happens to rise to fame through his content via tiktok recently attempted suicide by crashing his car in an attempt to take his life over his girlfriend breaking up with him, in another scenarios a lady comes out to drag a man of God on social media over alleged relationships saga that was suppose to lead to marriage but happens to be false play.
All this dramas is pointed to one direction " People will always change, a popular saying goes thus-change is the only permanent factor in life because it revolves with time, seasons and age, change is constant because there are so many factors at play so many circumstances and conditions that are at interplay for that change to occur....
right from when I was a child I use to wonder how people fall in love, from what point did it start and how did it eventually grow into relationships and then to marriage, how do people fall in love so deeply saying all manner amazing sweet things that are so pleasing to hear then in split of a second this loving caring wholesome perfect person that we see the whole world in turns completely to someone totally different from the persons we have known and come to build bond with over the years
-People will always change factor that into your subconscious mind
ofcourse it's normal to change due to certain factors that's why my major talk on this is Love yourself.
there are a lot of heart breaks and divorce happening everywhere and the aftermath of this is very devastating and suicidal why because we have vested more of our self worth on the other person such that in the case eof break up we are messed up and feel worthless without that person..
in liu of these the best you can do to self is to invest in yourself as much as you can, build value as much as you can, stay true to what you believe in and hold on, many will come and will go, that's part of life the most important lesson to grab in all of these that you don't lose your self in the process.
