Good evening everyone
How are we all doing
I will like to write on the prompt hidden cost of always been available.
This is really a good topic and it has many things to teach us .
Back in the days I always make sure I'm there for people and helping out in the way i can help till things started changing both growth and every other environmental changes, this changes shape my too much availability into what it is today .
People will always want you to be there for them most especially when they are in need but when you need them you will now know that they are only available when they need something From you which is always their intention which is really bad.
What am i trying to say ? I am saying that too much availability is call see finish , when you are always available to people you loses at least 70% of your dignity , you amount to Worthing of nothing , they see you less but you maintain your distance, whether by packaging or or anyhow you want to maintain it you will notice that your respect will be their .
It takes only few individuals to understand and respect their friends after too much availability.
Initially the individual will think he or she is building friendship by making his or herself available without knowing that he is just been use though not everyone does that but i must tell you that currently now majority of people we call friend and make ourselves always available to will always thing of how to use the person to achieve their aim and when the necessity comes the go there way and is when the person will know that he is just there and playing a one sided friendship.
In conclusion all i have to say is that too much availability is a see finish period .Meanwhile it is better to maintain your lane and never making yourself always available because it is only few that will understand that friendship.
In others wards the world is no longer what is use to be before so to avoid see finish place that availability to yourself and not anyone else because is you that deserve that availability to yourself and not anyone else.
Thank you for engaging in my blog today i really appreciate that.
