Unfortunately I have been the victim of some either insecure boyfriends or straight up pimps. These people wait until you have swam for your life then, once you finally give up and sink to the bottom, they feed off you. Cousin to the scum they cohabitate with, they use, mostly, a series of mental manipulation a psychopath would deem acceptable behavior. One pimp, a Las Vegas photographer, has disguised his disgusting pimp tactics as “pick up artistry”. He goes on and on about how you must keep your prey under mental anguish or “keep her guessing” by manipulating her. He thinks women are to be broken like dogs with humiliation, shame and anger. He has published books on how to emotionally abuse women into liking you. It’s disgusting that people think this behavior is acceptable. He even has a book on how to take home strippers without paying them! He’s a serial stripper dater. Oh wait, I mean PIMP. In my 9 month relationship with him he did nothing but abuse me until the day I finally fought back. He would constantly yell and throw things. He abused my puppy while I was at work by not letting him out for 12 hours when I worked doubles. He constantly body shamed me. I developed an eating disorder with this man. Finally I had enough and stood up for myself. He didn’t like that very much. He hits his own mother for Christ sake. Unfortunately the worst part of the job is the men you attract being a strong woman. Some men can’t stand a woman stronger than he is so he has to work to make her week. In truth there’s nothing lower than a man like this and I’m sorry for any woman with one.
