Hello Zoe Pink, I can feel you. bec. that was my experienced of my boyfriend that was lasted for 14 years. And I broke up with him bec. I feel the mental abuse it feels that I wasn't worth it as a woman who is very precious daughter to my parents. But I manage to get away with him even though he doesn't want to separate but I follow my intuition than my heart than it's too late. And now I have a perfect husband for me who is very supportive,loving and kind. And never regret to my marriage life.