Not a few of us are only good at inviting others to take care of themselves, but ourselves ignore it. Including maintaining one's own oral relationships with others. Even though verbal is ignored, it will be wild and can cause other people's prolonged hurt. It is not impossible to see mistakes and remind others, but do not forget to show higher concern for your own sins. Even in the Qur'an, we are commanded to guard ourselves and families from hellfire. Among the things that cause ourselves to slip into hell is the unwillingness to control oral. Even in the Qur'an it is said, Allah hates those who tell goodness, but he is not. This person's life is like experiencing chronic nearsightedness. Every day, spending energy to see the mistakes of others who are far away, but unable to see closely, especially the mistakes of yourself. The mistakes of other people even though they are slightly released, while the crime itself is hidden tightly.