Awesome post man... I really think that one of the best things we can do, is talk about our problems, our feelings, be true to ourselves... I admired James hetfield so much because he, being a rockstar, acknowledges this and thats the reason he is now sober.. "we should never let anyone dictate to us in this way, force us to accept their love, time and energy or indeed , control how 'they want us to be" this pretty much sums it all.. and finally, being a musician too I´m also glad that we have music to let it all out.. \m/