Gaining weight? And the changes came, like the husband's treatment. I would say It was not love it was just physical attraction and goes with it was just a lust. It was not the fault of his wife why she gained weight sometimes it was herjust body's reaction after giving birth ... or other factor to consider is she didn't care much of her self, the absence of self control, self management, discipline, thats it. There are factors to consider. We can not judge easily. We can draw our advise to those who felt ignored, we can enlighten them. I hope love prevails when even in the imperfection state of each individual, love remains