Seems to me that we co-create our realities... How we do that is based on the thoughts we allow into our heads, which lead to the choices we make and actions we take. This belief has served me well as I enjoy both short and long-term goal setting. Goal setting involves choices and achieving goals requires action and determination along with a flexible attitude. It is true that "life" is often what happens when we are busy making plans! Still, be open to possibilities and I believe you can create the future you want.