hello friends,
I sometimes think there is some kind of wish when overthinking that thinking will somehow replace action. A wish that if you just think enough you can find some easy way out or get what you want without having to actually do something.
But that is not very likely to happen. Instead you just keep thinking and thinking and hoping that something will happen or someone else will take action.
When you focus too much of your attention on what happened and replaying it over and over or on imagining the future then that usually leads to worries. To feeling paralyzed in fear by the things you magnify in your mind from the past or a possible future.
When we think about failure, we think of things in a negative light. We say that failure is painful and that it causes emotional turmoil and upset, and inflicts agonizing pangs of guilt, regret, and remorse.
But, for those that have known true failure, and have bounced back from it, understand that failure in life is necessary for success. Sure, failing hurts. In fact, it cuts deep like a razor, slicing its way to our inner core. Yet, it’s necessary.
And the most successful people in life have failed the most times. If you try to go through life without failing at anything, then you’re not really living a life at all. Taking risks and falling down flat on our faces is part of life; it makes us into who we are.
We know that falling down and failing while learning to walk is just a part of life.
What we don’t realize as is just what some people had to go to in order to get where they are in life. they had to fall down and fail many times.
Failure brings with it important firsthand knowledge. That knowledge can be harnessed in the future to overcome that very failure that inflicted so much pain in the first place. Nothing can replace the knowledge gained from failure.
many reason of failure but main reason of failures
main reason of failure in life
1.not proper to plan
You have a better chance to succeed in life if you have a plan. It doesn't have to be perfect. The real world doesn't reward perfectionists but those who get stuff done. You should always think through whatever you want to achieve and make plans on what to do next at any point in time. You plans should be specific, measurable and time-bound. Work with timelines for better and faster result.
2.Lack in Persistence
More people fail not because they lack knowledge or talent but because they just quit. It’s important to remember two words: persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done.
Try new approaches. Persistence is important, but repeating the same actions over and over again, hoping that this time you’ll succeed, probably won’t get you any closer to your objective. Look at your previous unsuccessful efforts and decide what to change. Keep making adjustments and midcourse corrections, using your experience as a guid
3.giving up too soon
many people any work giving up soon this was reason of faliure .How persistent are you about your dreams and goals in life? One of the most important secrets of success is learning to conquer your doubts. Most of us give up on our passion too soon.
4.making reason
here will always be a reason why it can't be done. People constantly explain away why they couldn’t, shouldn’t, didn’t, or simply wouldn’t do something. When you make excuses, you are simply saying, “I’m not in control.” But guess what -- you are the only person who is fully in control of your actions and decisions in the world. Making excuses robs you of your personal power.
5.Disbelief in yourself
If you don't believe in what you do, you will give up at some point. If you have no reason to believe it's possible to achieve your dreams or goals, all the effort you are putting into it will be wastedYour progress depends on your decision to try knowing that you will overcome your failures and rise above them.
Stay positive, focus on being mindful and keep a clear head. When problem solving, don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t all go according to plan. You can’t control everything in life or business, so embrace the adversity and dig in even further to drive a positive outcome. The harder you work for something, the more rewarding it is in the end.
Nothing is ever achieved without some trials and failure. The first step in moving beyond those circumstances is to remain positive. Without that, you’ll be perpetually stuck in the situation. No good has ever come from negativity.
believe yourself......