When I say don't judge me, what does it means to you? It means I have done or going to do something that is horrible. I don't like to be doing horrible things.
So I want you to listen to me without disapproval. I think I can pardon myself for that thing then. Their is no how illusory our Identities are,
by making good judgements we craft those Identities. We all judges, all the time. We do judge people, base on emotional triggers, by forming opinions
based on calculated and careful consideration of circumstances and evidence. When I say don't judge me, It means that I dont want to be judged
because of emotional triggers I set off. Many Individuals have being judged on the basis of their work, and knowledge. Examples a talented composer may be
okay with someone saying that nothing is good in his prose he write, but obviously, he will not happy with someone judging his competency on the amount of facial
hair he possess. We judge by good or bad, good judgements bring more improvement. While bad judgements has two types,
*Judging people on the wrong parameters
- judging people on the right parameters inaccurately.
People are actually good but base on the conditions his behavior may have made him to be appeared as bad, examples value people don't know how to manage
their anger, they ruin their good will among others in the community because of the poor anger management.
So anybody can be judged by good or bad, It takes more time to understand human nature by judging.
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