- Appreciate your wife as you appreciate your mother, because your wife is also the mother of your children.
. - If anger may not talk to your wife, but do not fight with her (yell at her, call her, hit her).
. - The heart of the house is a wife. If your wife's heart is unhappy then the whole house will look like hell (no jokes of laughter, spoiled, attention). Then love your wife to make her happy & you will feel like in heaven.
. Big or small salary, a wife still wants to be noticed. That way your wife will always welcome you home with affection.
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- 2 people who live 1 roof (married) do not need prestige, acting up, who wins who loses. Because the two are not to compete but friends forever.
. - Outside many ideal women exceed your wife. But they love you for what you have now, not what you are. When you find a difficult time, then the woman will leave you and have another dream man behind you.
. - Many good wives. But out there are many men who want to have a good wife and they do not get it. They will offer protection to your wife. So do not let your wife leave home because of sadness, because she will be very difficult to return.
. - Teach your son how to apply to his mother, so that later they know how to treat his wife.
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Let us learn from the life of the Prophet in building a sakinah mawaddah and rahmah household with gentleness and harmony in enforcing the rights and duties of husband and wife.
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Hopefully this paper can provide wisdom, both to the pengampai and to the reader. Aamiin ..