Hello Air-Clinicians $ Friends,
Today we are going to delve into the deep psychology in the eyes. Apart from being an organ of vision, the eye has a lot of functions when it comes to relationships.
A blind person can never understand this concept. But even he tries to move his head in the direction of speech.
The eyes is the window to the soul. As such, anyone who can look deeply into your eyes has access to your thoughts and feelings.
This is seen much more significantly in romantic relationships and love affairs. You ought to be able to look your lover in the eyes to look authentic.
At some other points, looking away could indicate interest in the opposite sex. This is seen most especially in ladies. When she's being talked to, she may become 'shy' and begin to look down. As well as playing with her clothes. (Story for another day)
Truth or lies are also in the eyes. Someone who's telling a lie in a given situation is much more likely to have shifty gaze. He or she darts the eye about and avoids eye contact.
Confidence level I another vital metric that can be given away by the eyes. Confident people tend to make me maintain eye contact in adding to standing tall and straight, talking and walking like they own the world and just being confidently disposed.
On the other hand, people with low self esteem is have some negative body languages. The same applies with depressed people. There are kinds of smiles that even shows up in your eyes. These set of people do not have that.
One other thing that many people don't notice is that the eyes actually help in your thoughts and thinking process. When you are trying to recall something the eyes respond appropriately by looking upwards and outwards. You know that gaze right? Yeah!
What does this apply to? Well, this knowledge is for all of us humans. Even animals have their own perculiar eye movement psychology that intrinsically applies to them.
The eyes is rich in details and meanings. Do not joke with it. Also having this knowledge helps you to be more sensitive and perceptive in your dealings with people.
That's why offline and online relationships differ alot. In online affairs, you don't get to look someone in the eyes and tell him/her that "you are lying!"
Thanks for reading!
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