Hello Air-Clinicians & Friends,
It was a very heated discussion yesterday in #AIR-CLINIC as we dissected this topic under the ANCHORSHIP of @Dr.MaureenAleyo a practicing medical doctor from Kenya. We are happy with the justice she did with the topic opening up different opinions.
We had participants from all over the world joining us including all the way from phillipines. Other participants from Nigeria included Dr. George (
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Thanks @Maureen.aleyo for being awesome as usual.
WHAT ARE THE THINGS DONE IN THE BEDROOM?
People had hilarious lists of things done in the bedroom including;
- Prayers
- Sleep
- Discussions
- Playing
- SEX!
We can all agree that sex was the topic...
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LEAD IN THE BEDROOM?
- The leader is one who defines the sexual roles. HE/she determines who stays where, who does what, when what is done etcz.
WHO SHOULD LEAD IN THE BEDROOM?
- There were differing opinions on this which ranged to the 2 extremes and some remained in the middle;
1- MEN SHOULD LEAD
The proponents of this believe that it was culturally and socially 'normal' for men to lead in the bedroom. They propose that 90% of sexual activities were lead by men. SO they should continue... Men make the first move/initiate sex most times, so men should lead what they started. Lolx.
2- WOMEN SHOULD LEAD
This is an emerging stream of thought. The proponents argue that since the men have been doing it for so long, the women should take over. Lolx.
3- BOTH SHOULD LEAD
The proponents of this school of thought believe that everyone has the ability to lead. So both of them should be activated in the bedroom.
OUR CONCLUSIONS
Eventually, after so many hours of thoughts and talks, we all came to the conclusion that whoever the spirit leads should lead in the bedroom. So whether its a man or woman doesn't matter that much. What matters is that there's a couple's union and that activities in the bedroom do continue in an exciting way.
It could get boring when one person does all the leading all the time. For a change, someone else should lead. If you trust your partner enough then you 2 should be able to open up to each other whenever you feel the urge.
That brings us to the end of this discussion. Thanks for reading!
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