Let's start with the obvious—
What is Crush?
Crush is A short-lived and unrequited love or infatuation; or An object of infatuation.
Relationship aren’t easy. Once you find someone you really like, it feels amazing to give your all to them.
We all have crushes, but what’s okay and what isn’t when it comes to relationships? Then the most important question or thing that comes to your mind is "When you are in a relationship is it Normal to have a crush on someone",
In other words Yes!
It’s totally normal to have crushes while in a relationship. Just because you’re devoted to someone doesn’t mean you aren’t going to find other people attractive or charismatic. As long as you’re fully committed to your spouse, there shouldn’t be a problem.
Generally, these crushes are harmless and natural. I think it’s only human nature to be flattered by a little extra attention, especially when you usually only receive it from one person over a long period of time. It’s nice to know that you still have game.” While crushing on someone is okay, you definitely don’t want to take it farther than that. Read on for what you should ask yourself when these crushes come up.
1 : If you’ve had a long-time crush on someone and know nothing would ever happen, you shouldn’t be worried. But if you’re in a serious relationship and find yourself wanting other people in your life, that may be a red flag. “I think that in some way we will all have a crush on someone else while in a relationship and probably that crush is for someone that we knew about before being in the relationship.”
2 : If you find yourself flirting with your crush and trying to spend time with them, it’s probably a bad sign. Your SO should be the person you want to be with and have there to support you. If you find yourself trying to befriend your crush, you could be entering dangerous territory. As long as you keep your crushing to your imagination, you shouldn’t run into trouble. If you find yourself pursuing the person, it may be time to rethink the relationship you’re in.
3 : The most important part of relationships is communication. If you’ve talked to your Spouse about having crushes and both acknowledge that it’s completely natural, you’ll feel a lot better and things will go smoothly.
I think it all depends on what you identify as a crush. If I think someone's attractive, physically and emotionally, I consider that a little crush—and I think they are harmless and even healthy.” Once you’re on the same page as your Spouse, you won’t worry when you find yourself staring at someone on the streets. If you want to bring this up casually without freaking out your Spouse, you could say something like, “Who’s your celebrity crush?” When they tell you, tell them yours and say something like, “Isn’t it great we can have silly crushes and still be devoted to each other?” This will allow you to see how they feel about it and get things off your chest.
While relationships should focus on the two people in them, having crushes is inevitable. As long as you’re devoted to your SO and aren’t actively pursuing someone else, there’s no reason to feel ashamed! Just remember to be open and let your partner know if you think it’s more than a crush—that’s when dangerous territory can come up. Happy crushing!!!!
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