From the previous post I stated the types of drama in relationships, but now am going to tell us few tips on how to control our relationship.
There is no success without failure, no good without bad, therefore why do we expect our relationship to be perfect?. In every relationship there must be ups and down.
For instance if you eat too much chocolate, you get tired of it or maybe get sick, or you can't eat a particular food for a long time you get tired of it also..
I learnt something from this instance guess what!!??
The more you spend time with your partner the more the relationship starts getting sour and then drama plays in... Don't misquote me!! Am not trying to say spending time with your lover is bad, NO, what I meant is too much of everything is bad... There can't be positive without negative, so if you take things too far and spend more time your partner may get tired of you and would want to try someone else.
This then brings about drama in the relationship.
Reason being that every little mistake you make can lead to physical fighting or verbal Fighting just like I stated in the part1, then to hiding things from each other before it fully escalate to cheating around....
Together you both have to shorten the drama by??
*Discussing with your partner
Let him/her know your mind and what you have done or what he/she did that caused the drama.
*Complimenting your lover or partner
You don't to wait occasionally to compliment your partner. Always find sweet words to tell him/her. If you are going for an occasion with him/her you say words like "Nice dress or Nice clothes, it looks pretty good on you"... It goes a long way....
*Don't let debates escalate to serious argument.
*Try to solve every misunderstanding immediately don't wait until the following day.. it's EGO that destroys the mighty twelve words Relationship...
*Always apologize when you're wrong
*Learn to always accept your self and others as they are.
With all this I promise you'll scale through all Drama's in your relationship......
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