Only socialists are clamoring for egalitarianism. I recognize inequality will prevail without the State; and that the State can't achieve it anyway. And no anarchist is Utopian. Again, that's the view of statists, i.e., "free" stuff; equality, but not in liberty; law and order to fix everyone; etc. I recognize crime will still prevail under statelessness, though to a lesser degree.
It doesn't keep society "in check and stable." We're falling apart because of the backwards justice of statism: lock people up who committed no crime, by the people (the State) who actually commit crimes since their income originates in aggression.
Because there's criminals and a need for security doesn't logically conclude that it must be provided monopolistically. Again, such is a contradiction, too.
RE: The Cognitive Dissonance of the Simple Issue at Hand