Honestly, nobody but my friends knew that I was a libertarian (minarchist or anarchist) for about 3-ish years. I did change my dad's views here and there, but he thought I was a conservative until a few months ago when I started to more openly disagree with him. He hasn't changed his attitude towards me except when he asks me about my opinions, where instead of assuming like he use to he actually asks now. He's the person that got me into politics, but I don't see any disappointment from him that I've went a different way than what he raised me.
The rest of my family that cares about politics, however, does not know. Half of them are the ones that whenever we discuss the police it almost always gets to a yelling point. I now just try to avoid discussion with them, so I doubt that they'll know my true political identity for a while. I believe there would be some social consequences with them if they did find out, but there is no need to tell them when they believe that decreasing the funding for police at all will cause "them" or "the other side" to win.
The other half is more libertarian leaning anyways and more accepting when it comes to that kind of stuff, but I see no use in being blatantly open about it since I only see some of them 4 or 5 times a year.
RE: Anarchism Takes Courage: Helping People Escape the Cult of Normalcy