What the fuck are you talking about?
With some of what you say, I resonate, but for much of it.... what?
Chaos can be a teacher, but do not expect coherent order from chaos. That is satanic. Literally. Mark Passio explains it, I think, in this video.
And Government Is Chaos, Anarchy Is Order by Kal Molinet, the basic idea of which being that the taking of things regardless of the consent of the owner, is theft... and that's what government does via taxation.
Taxation is theft.
The government is unaccountable because this theft is defended by everyone.
Unaccountability creates chaos.
Order does not spring from chaos, but order.
The world and people are fundamentally orderly. They are acting disorderly in a small way that, collectively, creates a monster of daily, deadly, destructive chaos.
But y'know, people aren't ready for not being slaves. You have to do it incrementally (never), like how the Marxists implemented communism. So, these human beings of today are just slaves, but maybe their children will learn the ways and habits of being a better pig. Maybe. If they try hard.
RE: Can we handle the full freedom and responsibility of anarchy? Not yet... but we can learn to!