Lack of government does not require a lack of rules and consequences. To the contrary, government gives a blanket exception to an entire class of people, rulers, to operate without said rules and consequences. Without government, an action that violates another's rights is punished with the use of self-defense or an organised resistance. The real trick is to get people to realize that through love of oneself and one's connections, government is not only unnecessary, but also supremely abusive of individual autonomy.
RE: Anarchy is Not Just a Childish "Phase"; Government is the Childish Phase