We are not here to keep scores and maintain a ledger as to who went wrong and how many times. We are here to understand that there is a lot more to life when we move past the minor challenges.
And love is a great form of forgiveness. When you are with someone, you are bound to make mistakes, they are bound to make mistakes and sometimes mistakes are bound to happen without that being your fault.
But sometimes, a mistake is just a mistake – you might just have to talk about what it means to you and that is it. There is no point in digging it further and trying to settle scores.
You are not competing with anyone here and if you are, you really are headed to a deep chasm. None of these love sayings would make any sense if we were to do that.