All acts of purity and holiness evading the bride price are all gangsters!
Love can not talk about money, but not money.
There is only one precondition for not talking about money, and that is that both sides are free and wealthy, and are perfectly able to avoid all the problems in life that need to be solved with money.
Unfortunately, most people are the most common diet men and women, firewood, rice, oil, salt and seven passions are inevitable. Therefore, love without any mention of money is like a castle in the air, especially in the transition from love to marriage.
If love is an abstract feeling, then marriage is a concrete day, need to live day by day, two people eat, drink, Lazard together, do not talk about money is a joke!
As for the betrothal gift, we put it on the table seriously, not to make a windfall by marriage, but to measure your position in a man's heart by real wealth.
The key lies not in the absolute value of wealth, but in the relative value it represents. For example, 100 thousand of ordinary men will pay 90 thousand or 1000 for you.
Don't be silly. When a man dodges the lottery and wants to marry you home without paying a cent, the relationship is already impure.
True love is not afraid to talk about money, afraid to talk about money, but those who haven't completely put you into their hearts. Please believe that where men spend their money, their hearts are everywhere.
Oath of Honor is the least costly empty cheque, so when you're ready to spend the rest of your life with a man, think more.
After all, apart from betrothal gifts, there are still many places to talk about money. Marriage income distribution, financial arrangements, investment in education, emergency funds, human relations, which are enough for you to argue to the dark!
I like money, I think he and you too. So everything that interests them naturally becomes a sensitive topic.
In fact, my first sentence is a direct expression of the point of view: should talk, and must talk, but also a good talk, talk clearly.
It is best to implement it before marriage. Don't give empty checks.
What is tight now? After we get married, we change into a big house. In a few years, I have developed.
Ghosts know that these things are not worth counting.
Not to talk clearly is to give others the chance to play dumb and flicker.
Marriage is also a cooperation, very important, easily no one is willing to break the contract of cooperation, more cautious talk.
Let me talk about it again.
Money is worth, and price is determined by itself, but how much depends on others. It depends on the concentration of your feelings.
It's important to evaluate yourself, that's self-worth, to get more people to think you're not worth it and run away. Want less, oneself wronged oneself, lose.
In fact, intimacy and social intercourse are different, many things, talk about money is simple, clear to each other, at least psychological balance and quantifiable standards. It will not happen. I have been following you for several years.
Maybe nobody will care so much when they are together, but when they break up, they will measure their emotional efforts. Sorry, at this time, there is generally no emotion, only the comparison and consideration of money.
How should I talk? I always like a simple and crude way to tell your boyfriend:
Your feelings are pure and holy, so if I can't prove them with anything else, please prove them with money.
if you are loyal, if you don't go halfway back, then the money will always be yours.
I want money, not test you, it is true, it is true, and it is not open to question.
Finally, I would like to say that many people will use their own moral standards to kidnap others, feel that this is too secular, too utilitarian, I am sorry, we are living in a secular society, no one can avoid secular.
