There is a teaching in every challenge, every fight, every victory, every lost, and i always like to face then with ideas, no matter end result. When you share any activity with your couple there use to be a weird rule to support each other, no matter what, but is that really ok? Isn’t the point of “do something”, to do it right?
Ely and i talk a lot during our creativity process to share any pros and cons of the ideas, and after many fights (caused by honestly comments) we understood what we want, what we really want is not compliments, nor cheer. After we finish some art we want it to be appreciated and loved because was well done.
At the end, I don’t want her to feel good with me for what I did say, but proud of herself for what she achieved.