One of the things that break us is not the situation relative to the present but in relation to...
Or in one word: jealousy
You look at the other and you see that the neighbor's lawn is greener.
You are making your own troubles because you are comparing yourself to someone else.
let me give you an example:
Look at the Olympics, there are 3 winners in each kind of sport
Gold medal for 1st place, Silver medal for 2nd place, Bronze medal for 3rd place.
Check who is the happiest and who is the least happy
Of course, the one who is the happiest is the 1st place!
and you'll be surprised, but the 3rd place is happier than the 2nd place.
and why?
After all, the second place gets more "respect" and money
no, the second place is more depressed.
why?
think about it, he dreamed his whole life to get to this place,
and the first place overtook him in the seconds!
The third place is pleased: "The main thing is that I brought a medal, it is good for the country."
The question is who you compare yourself to and why the neighbor's lawn is always greener?
Because there's more garbage there that you don't see
Don't compare your self to anyone, say thank you for what there is and what you have.