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Things to quit right now
- Trying to please everyone (like Sebastinho Manuel will say you are not jollof rice so quit trying to make everyone happy especially if it will cost you your own happiness)
- Fearing change (no matter how you resist it, change is one thing that's bound to happen. The best you can do is work towards making sure change influences you positively when it does happen)
- Living in my past (this is the surest way to keep you permanently stagnant. It's happened, there's nothing you can do about it so why waste precious time dwelling on it.
Break free from it and focus on what's ahead. Keep in mind that #Nkiruka - Putting myself down (people's opinion about you means absolutely nothing unless you make it count. Believe in yourself, be your number one fan because you are the best thing that's happened to this world.
Self-love is everything and if you don't love yourself, come on you don't expect me to love you) - Overthinking (just go with the flow sometimes, life doesn't have to be a set of rigid rules and regulations that has to be followed judiciously. I mean you've been thinking about this particular thing since like forever just get up and do it already.
- Taking people's things (dreams, properties, wears etc). Even when you don't have now doesn't means you/won't have it later in the future.
People's things belong to them, taking it without their prior consent or notice endanger relationship and makes one look like a thief. A nugget for the Soul said "what is yours is yours". So, why not wait till it becomes yours either by working towards acquiring it or by having faith that one day it will be yours. - Taking things too personal (well, we all are human and we are bound to harbor hatred or anger one way or the other). But letting it dictates our nature of love and heart drives us out of becoming a better person or me.
Instead of taking it personal why not take a deep breath and give a charming smile, say to yourself GOD is LOVE. - Talking too much (As the saying goes "empty barren makes the loudest noise"). I tend not to do things whenever I talk too much, in terms of responding to an issue or conversation. He who talks keep repeating what he already knows but he who keeps quiet and listen gains a lot of new knowledge #wisetalk
So, I wouldn't want to be a Trump rather I would want to be PROACTIVE in terms of LISTENING.
Be spontaneous, be flexible, be fluid and enjoy life. #yolo so make it count)
You should take that decision too!
Have a wonderful and fruitful week friends
#bigmendon'trush