I do get to see my kids, sometimes it is made more difficult then it needs to be which sucks but I also talk to them over the phone or messenger and get to play games with them online throughout the week as well. I imagine I wanted to raise my kids to not have to ever go through anything like I did. I do understand that hardship at all levels can have varying effects on people and I am lucky enough to come out of it who I am because really it could've gone either way. Thanks for the questions, good luck on your post :D