This is among the self-absorbed junk I've read countless times from "martyr autism moms" or "autism warrior moms" or whatever you call yourselves now.
Autistics...children or otherwise...are not out here for you to get pity points for being a parent!
Being a parent is hard....of ANY child. If it was easy, we wouldn't have all the businesses catering to parenting, child-rearing, advice, and shared-moaning.
If you think being a parent of an autistic is hard, try reading your tripe above from your kid's point of view, and think "would I want this said about me?" And yes, your kid has an opinion, regardless of whether they can or want to share it with you.