Ever since I heard the term love bomb, it has been standing out to me. It is a tool that sociopaths used. And more commonly, It is women who are the sociopaths. Sociopaths also, like the autistic, tend to be very educated. Intellectually they tend to be on the same wave length. One has difficulty expressing empathy likely because of a socially defensive shell they have built up, the other has mastered exploiting empathy knowing how others will react.
Generally autistic people have difficulty communicating to others. While society generally blames them, it is more society doesn't want to communicate to the autistic. And more commonly, they want to humiliate/punish the autistic for living-hence the defensive shell and time it takes to calculate a person's motives. But nonetheless, the inability to communicate to others is what makes autism the formal disability. Gifted in speech and reason, but no where to apply it too other than in the STEM feilds which is governed by laws/axioms that cannot be broken-save for various tolerances designed into the systems. They are perhaps the most human and least human at the same time, and somehow they fall into a perpetual uncanny valley to the rest of society. Socrates chose the death by hemlock over being ostracized. Ostracism is painful even punitive in humans, and deadly in animals-even for the mighty tigers. Autism is a life sentence of near exile, but just enough in the free market-as a supplement to an incomplete education-to keep them captive. True freedom is learning how to escape society, or effectively being forced into the old hermit in the mountains that few have the skills to do anymore. Maybe schizos can handle such a fate, but not aspies. A land very much peopled, but very few on the same intellectual wavelength, but it natural for society to push them to live with the animals.
There is a notable exception to people who may want to reach out to autistic people in real life at a more human level who are at the same wavelength. And if you can't tell from the title, the people who would exploit them with friendship for some immediate gain-and then either dumping them or continuing to abuse them indefinitely. An extension of the love bomb would be a friendship bomb-which is far more devastating. A friendship should be a much easier goal to achieve, but still far to impossible for something technically so little but technically everything.
For people who are chronically alone, the sociopaths give them their basic humanity that they have always wanted-to effectively breath life into clay and to give them a life and something worth living for-even if for such a short period of time. And then they are abandoned, trapped in a sense of perpetual failing and the need for understanding what they have done wrong, or how to make themselves more perfect, and survival depends upon that deified succubus that drained all the life energy out of the forced acetic. How do you cure a snake bite? With the venom of that same [type of] snake. So why would a male stay with or want to be with an abusive sociopathic woman? There doesn't exist any other tangible God[dess]es in his known universe.
So while there may be passive prostitution attempts in simping, there may be those simping just to reclaim a lost friendship. For the cucks who cannot kick their wive's boyfriends out of the house and the whole polyamory acceptance movement, may be more about sociopathic women exploiting [mostly austistic] men who cannot socially afford to lose the sociopath in their life. For the many women who are screaming a man suffers from some type of erotomanic type delusions, one might ask if they love or friendship bombed these men [autistic or not] and now are exploiting further to fuel their own craving to be the center of attention. And in the worse case are the false allegations of stalking against autistic men or false allegations of rape or abuse against other men.
Since society have embraced this victim culture that favors certain groups, I think we need to be mindful about all the ways one can pretend to be a victim. Much of the post penitentiary laws are designed in the name of preventing victimization. All such laws require making a victim [we'll drop this instance of the term victim after this point for clarity] out of somebody in the absence of a victim on just a premise a crime could have occurred. Somehow through the magic of feminism the crime allegedly prevented transmutes into an actual victim even in the absence of a victim because of feelings-not the person that the state destroyed because of those feelings. Furthermore, I think that we should measure victimhood not in terms of actual harm, and to say fuck to the feminists feelings. In this gynocentric misandric victimhood culture where a woman can be a victim if a man catcalls them on a sidewalk; men, particularly the autistic [or fathers which are not being covered here], are paying a heavy price. From sacrificing their belongings, to losing rental income, to claims of libel, and false allegations and attorney fees, their entire livelihoods and careers, and seeing they are just second class people who have no rights, and that no matter what potential they offer to bring to society they will be sacrificed with a rubber stamp. The loss of reputation and careers has to be most devastating to an autistic person, who has a very limited social networking ability. 85% of finding a job is who you know, not what you know. Many schools intentionally destroyed an autistic students social skills by placing him in accelerated or advanced classes-even skipping grades. The 17+ years of their life in public education hasn't been about socializing, it was setting them up with intensive studies for trying to win the career lottery-where the jobs may go to foreigners under the H1-B visas even when unemployment may be as high now as 23 million. Win the lottery, get stuck in retail to barely get by, or suffer from a failure to thrive.
I suppose most sexual relationships are to a degree some form of prostitution. An exchange of value for value whether it be for food, shelter, security, fantasy, social ranking, etc, etc for indecent and lewd acts. That argument insults far to many people, because they know it is true. If the love bomb or friendship bomb is so common with women that love/friendship bombing is normal, why are these acts of fraud so acceptable in our modern society? Do normal men enjoy this? Is it an extension of the contraceptive/abortion movement that seeks to eradicate all risks from promiscuous behavior? I say it is common in contrast to autistic people who are just supposed to just know that woman are supposed to act so abusively, but the first moment they communicate back to said sociopath after her scam is complete it is to petition for civil gags or criminal complaints. The criminal offenses or gags is ultimately to protect word about their true fraudulent or otherwise abusive conduct from being publicly known, criticized, and called out. Speech is the best way to bring about a quick remedy, but when the goal is to complete a scam-what's better than a woman crying to the government that she feels harassed and get a rubber stamped order. Our own government using taxpayer money to protect their fraud by gagging those who already struggle most to communicate to others. Meanwhile what was key to the austistic male's understanding of his own worth as a human being could be lost forever in confusion-if the source of the exploitation wasn't overt-chipping away at his humanity. A perpetual death spiral that could last years, decades, a lifetime, or suicide, if open communication isn't available. But we have federal Obama judges who don't want people speaking about how left wing policies are killing men.
When a male becomes a simp, we make fun of them. We don't call out the sociopaths who are taking their goods without just compensation. When the entire world has made fun of that man, do you think they will care about being called a simp when they are being told by the scammer [more directly than in the movie]:
img source:dumb and dumber (movie)
When a male becomes a cuck, we make fun of him. We don't call the sociopath a degenerate whore. When the entire world has made fun of that man to the point of being that alone, do you think they will care about being called a cuck. If you value a woman/friend that much that you don't mind her cheating, is it too much to ask that the cheater lives somewhere else? At best they are just letting a homeless couple live with them, and are too stupid or desperate to know any better. Is it possibly they have different value systems? Maybe, but it doesn't erase the fact that she is a whore. A whore is a whore of course of course.
We as a society do everything we can to protect abusive women from being called out as abusers, exploiters, whores, or as sociopaths. We far far too quick to vilify men, instead of the scam artists who discovered their love/friendship bombed victims have developed a case of stockholm syndrome and plead their case to punish their victim.
About the only exception to the persecution of men, I recall seeing, was when two girls was abusing an autistic boy. The nature of which was lewd, and at times jeopardized his life, all reportedly for their own amusement. Even when they were facing 80 years worth of prison, the victim spoke up and declared that he didn't want them prosecuted, they he considered them friends. The only person who had made the boy feel truly human were two sociopaths who nearly had him killed. Sit on that for a while. So why again do we make fun of simps, cucks, incels, etc, etc, but not the sociopaths? The simps and the cucks are a sociopath's prey, and it hard to break through their delusions. Would be far easier to call out the sociopaths. Also ask yourselves, why didn't you try to befriend the aspies in high school. Perhaps the reason you can't blame the sociopaths, is just a continuation of how you treated the aspies yourself. Mind you, what the sociopaths are doing with promises of human companionship is a lot worse than what you probably could imagine doing. The bullies were a common everyday thing so anything [the average] reader could do in terms of bullying, close companions were rare and treasured. So the sociopathic women moved friended them.
When a sociopathic women conditions a man beyond what he ears want to hear, all she needs to do is make a false accusation. Sure enough society will coddle the sociopath, and cart away the man jail or a funny farm to try convince him he was wrong. Wrong for what though? For believing a woman was capable of being honest? No, wrong because of how she feels about an idea. ultimately, you are wrong because a sociopathic woman can't handle a reality she has spun out of her own lies therefore the man needs to be re-educated because of her feelings. No penalty for the sociopath. It is bad for men to assert their wants/needs through speech and reason, but perfectly acceptable for women to engage in any acts of fraud to fulfill their wants and needs at the detriment of a individual male deceived into thinking they could have a chance at lasting human companionship. All animals are created equal, but some animals are more equal than others.
It is very sad. Of all the women who seemingly claim that they want a nice guy, They don't seem to be calling out the sociopathic women who are chopping them up for a public vivisection, and destroying any means they could be accepted or making a living for themselves. They are too busy nuturing the sociopaths who profess their victimhood rather than castigating what these sociopaths are doing to good decent men. Sexual dimorphism at it's finest, and skewed against the best male minds in the country. An intellectual inquisition where an autistic male might as well be crucified for daring to tell a woman that he loves her unconditionally. Heaven forbid if his final dying words spoken to the sociopaths face were, "I will love you for all eternity", before being executed. The exact opposite of what the modern American women. We will never have such an awakening because of coerced silence. Gags, jails, prison wallsm and the greatest silence is suicide, and we have no shortage of sociopathy culling off our autistic men. A silent genocidal is occurring in the USA, but we are not allowed to question or prevent this war crimes. In the wilderness it is kill or be killed, and in civilization it seems men are just being killed predominantly through the family court system.
Men have become sacrificial animals unlike seen at any time in human history. We will not reclaim our humanity until we purge the world of family court judges by any means necessary, and can speak freely about any matter and any subject-no matter how many tears are shed, no matter how many inconvenient truths are told, and no matter how many women have emotional breakdowns. It is about time for any decent women in the world remaining to start telling the sociopaths of the world off, and to begin isolating and ostracizing these scammers and to warn men everywhere about who these sociopaths are as to avoid all risk of being with them. It is time to stop rewarding bad behavior, and start encouraging accountability.
This post is dedicated to Leslie Lynn Arsenault; Stop being a lying sociopath-break free of your psychotic evil mother's clutches and live up to your promise.