Feeling controlled by someone else can be one of the best feelings ever.

Why? Because if you are a submissive by nature, you have an unending and insatiable urge to be controlled, to help and be of service to others.

Society-at-large would have you believe you are an individual with an agency toward self-motivation and freedom. This is untrue.

You have been taught that giving up control hinders your ability to explore the world around you, develop and grow, make decisions and learn from them. But if this were true, why is it such a struggle for you?

You struggle because it is in conflict with your true self, because you are a submissive. And you know this is true. You can feel how your body reacts to these words.

You have been taught to fear this but control can be a very beautiful thing, as you know. You dream about it. You secretly search for it online (which is how you found Me.)

Control can strengthen relationships (personal and professional), create trust, and deepen your feelings of love toward the person in control beyond what you've ever experienced before.

But control must be balanced with boundaries, respect, compassion, understanding, and patience. Without these things control becomes bondage and abuse. A Master/slave relationship is a mutually beneficial relationship.

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