Growing up as a young lady, in an African home is one of my major setbacks in my entire life...your practically not allowed to make your own decisions concerning things like, where you work especially if its in another state, whether or not you want to move out of your parents house and become responsible for your life. A black African man always feels when a young girl leaves her parents to live on her own, she wants to misbehave. This is one thing i have faced after graduating from the university....how can this be even happening? But well, i have come to discover that one gets to a certain point in life when you damn every other thing and decide to live your life regardless of whatever we thought was the right thing to do. Sincerely, i have gotten to that point.
Put your happiness first before considering what others feel is the best for you.