My marriage counselor showed me yesterday, avoidance issues with my wife woud lead to separation and divorce. So now I've got to learn how to nurture.
Not like I wasn't doing this before, but when you sit in front of a professional you see the blatantly obvious. The guy did not want to talk about finances at all, which I thought was the problem.
But if the issue is avoidance, then I've got the same issues with God. The big problem with separation and divorce here could mean hell. So now I've got incentive to make my marriage work. God avoiding me would not just be custody, child and spousal support but eternally being without His presence. Hell would be the place for that, and He could put me there.