Many downfall of men have come from having multiple sex partners, sex is beyond the physical it's more of the spiritual, not every girl you see on the road is a girl, some are ancestoral spirit walking looking for whom to devour, some are walking with generational curse looking for whom to pass it to, some are demons, some are destiny killers but how do you know?
Any man who cannot control his sexual urge will sure die young or live a poor and miserable life, even the bible told us in proverbs that any man who loveth pleasure shall be poor.
Having many sex partners doesn't make you the wisest or freshest guy in town, it only makes you a big fool who is digging an early grave for himself. Real men stick to one woman, grow with her and build a family with her. That time you're using to crack your head on how you'll sleep with someone else's wife of girlfriend, you should use that time, sit with your wife and figure out how you will build and raise a home.
You use and dump ladies and you forget you will also get your own children, don't be sad when karma comes hunting. What goes around will definately come around. If you will not make her your wife don't make her a mother. You are a man, your erection should not control you but you should control your erection, if your erection controls you, I tell u your days on earth will be extremely short or long with much poverty.
Yes, sex is sweet but its sweeter with your wife and partner. Learn to control your sex urge,