IMPORTANCE OF FRIENDS
This is a promise of togetherness of a lifetime,anything lesser than is not worth having a friend.
Friend is a person with whom one is on terms of mutual affection,supporter of a cause,person
on the same side in a conflict.
So what is the impact of a friend in someone life style? Obviously,there are all kind of physical
reason for our friendships.We enjoy someone's company,they are easy to talk to,they make us
laugh, but this are not the true purpose.
I do say something whenever am rendering a radical changes among my peers,I said,one of the
only true choice we make in life is our environment and the friends we associate and surround
ourselves with.This has tremendous influence on us because everything flows from there.
Friends are people you can bitch to without feeling judged.They are people who know when you
are feeling dowm. Friends are people who call us in our issues,push us to grow,and support us.
A friend of mine ask me a question that,what us the difference between love and friend?. I make
sounds with a facial movement and scorn to his question and said love is deep intense affection,
sexual passion,a beloved person or thing.Our parent love is because we are their children,our wife
(ves) or husband loves us because of marriage,our family loves us because we share condition or
relation.
They unconditionally love and care for us without expectations and assurances. We get to share
the most amazing kind if love and relation with friends,especially after school days,friends tends
to go to different directions in life thus geographically separate.
However,the hearts always remain together with good friends, we are assured that even after
years of separation they will always show up when in need. Friends are forever ready to help.
no one in the world understand our thinking,dreams and desires like friends do.
The main reason of choosing yo do friendship is to be with someone who understand and
does not judge.Our friend generally have common ideology and opinion, hence it becomes
easy for them to perceive. At the most difficult endeavors and embarrassing decision, we
always find our friends cheering from the sidelines.
They may not always believe never become the hurdle in the path of achieving our vissions,
They know us inside out,they know our flaws,weakness,ugly truth,dark past and insecurities
and still choose yo remain by our sides.
Friends accept and love us for who we are, they do not intends to chance us like our parent,
girlfriend and boyfriend when heartbreak or other situation become extremely hard to toler-
ate friends offer us their shoulder to shed tears on.
They provide us the loving warm arms that wrap us away from the harsh times.Friends are
the permanent partner in all our crimes,no matter how serious and sincere we are,our
friends have push us to break imaginable rules,which are engraved in our hearts as most
fabulous memories. At the times if trouble,friends have stayed by our sides and shared
the responsibilities with fun.They have the strange power of turning every bad moment
into hilarious and memorable ones.
In conclusion,i implore and beseech my dear reader to know the type of peers you
mingle with."it was amazing when a stranger become a friend rather than a friend
Become a stranger".Friend leads and mislead..CAUTION!!!
By:Ayorinde Feranmi