Good afternoon my fellow Steemians, I really hope you are having a great day. Sincerely, I hope!
Yesterday, we discussed something that's of great importance to us all. It's something that could have important on our health, our jobs,our families and friends, also our relationships and even our fellowship with the Supreme Being. Well, just in case you did not get the opportunity to read that post, you could as well check my previous post and read it up. Please, make sure you don't only read, but digest the indebt content of the post. It would surely help you in most area of your life, if not "in all"!
Without wasting much of our time, yesterday I said:
Words define us. People use words that reveal their most dominant thoughts.
Truly, words are a powerful tool to achieving greatness in life in general.
The Table of Content:
I would like to believe you have an overall view of the lesson already from yesterday's post. Well, today, we are going to continue from #2.
#2. To make you understand the negative effects of the words "I can't"
#3. To make you understand how you could avoid the words "I can't", and believe "you can"
If you believe you can, you can; if you believe you can't, you can't.
Straight to the first one:
The Negative Effects of the Words: "I can't"
Let me start by saying the words "I can't" probably has no positive effect. It's all negative!
Here are some negative effects of those words:
(1). When you believe you can't, you are bound to fail in the venture if you attempt it.
(2). Saying and believing "you can't" shows lack of self confidence in yourself and abilities.
(3). Saying you can't makes others lose hope on you, especially of you are the leader of a team.
(4). Believing you can't sets limits to you and your potentials.
(5). Saying you can't consistently, gives others a negative impression about how you rate yourself, and your abilities. They may doubt your very own prominent gifting!
How to avoid the believe "I can't"
If we know the drastic effects of the words, "I can't" we also need to understand how we could avoid them I our pursuit of our dreams:
(1). Associate with those who are full of the believe "I can", not those living with the believe: "I can't"
(2). Decide to never give up on yourself no matter what.
(3). Eliminate the words "I can't" from your vocabulary.
(4). Choose to stay positive no matter what life throws at you.
You would see the more of the aforementioned things you do, the less the "I can't" attitude hold you down.
On a Final Note
Decide never to be stopped by the "I can't" attitude. Never let it stop you from achieving your dreams. And always remember that: you can always choose between "I can't", and "I can". Make sure you choose the "I can" attitude.
Thanks for reading this article!
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