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It's that time of the year again 🎂🎈🥳

Life is a journey, and each year is a mile marker along the way. I was born on October 9th, 1992 – which means that I am officially turning 31 years old tomorrow. I have been reflecting on the path that I've traveled and the road that lies ahead. This milestone is not just a number; it's a stepping stone in the journey of self-discovery, growth, and fulfillment.

The twenties are often hailed as the defining decade of one's life. It's a time of exploration, self-discovery, and laying the foundation for the future. The twenties are marked by a series of firsts – the first job, the first apartment, the first taste of independence. It's a time of figuring out what makes you tick, what you're passionate about, and who you want to become. Mistakes are made, lessons are learned, and new friendships are forged and old friendships often crumble. It's a decade of growth, both professionally and personally.

My 30s have allowed me to appreciate the challenges I've faced and the resilience I've developed during my twenties. It's a time to recognize that life's journey is not always a straight line, and detours and setbacks are part of the process. These experiences shape us, helping us grow stronger and wiser. Almost all of my 20s I was working a job that I loathed and am thankful to no longer be doing that. I will admit that it did teach me some life skills, especially patience.

One of the most significant shifts that occurred as I hit my 30s was the increasing weight of responsibilities. For many, this is the time when careers become more demanding, relationships become more serious, and financial responsibilities become more pronounced. It can be a daunting transition, but it's also an opportunity for personal growth. I'm at square one with a relationship right now and work has had it's ups and downs. Between crypto tanking and Hive earnings being diminished and Instacart losing customers and hiring too many people, my finances are not perfect, but I am still managing to find a way to continue my current lifestyle and have faith that eventually things are going to explode to new levels of stability.

With greater responsibility comes greater self-assuredness. I feel that I am better equipped to handle the challenges life throws my way now that I'm in my 30s. I've learned the art of time management and prioritization and found a balance between work, family, and personal pursuits. I have the ability to take on these responsibilities with grace and determination as a testament to my growth.

Even though I am about to be 31 years old, I have been able to revisit long-neglected passions and set new goals. It really is never too late to do these things. It's a reminder that life is too short to put dreams on hold indefinitely. Whether it's a career change, a new hobby, or a long-dreamt-of adventure, this age marks a chance to pursue those passions with renewed vigor.

I find that I have more time and resources to dedicate to my interests. I've been able to invest in self-improvement, namely with nutrition and fitness. I also cut out my old habits of smoking weed and drinking alcohol. I'm proud that I have taken the time to invest in myself and strive for excellence in my chosen pursuits.

I now stand on the precipice of my thirties, ready to embrace the future with open arms. This is a decade of consolidation and building upon the foundation laid in my twenties. It's a time to set ambitious goals, make plans, and work diligently toward them.

While the thirties may come with their own set of challenges and uncertainties, they also offer a sense of purpose and clarity. A man turning 31 is not just a year older; he's a year wiser, a year more experienced, and a year closer to the full realization of his potential.

Turning 31 is more than just a birthday; it's a milestone in the journey of life. It's a time to reflect on the lessons learned, appreciate the growth achieved, and set a course for the future. As responsibilities grow, so does the capacity to handle them with grace and determination. Passions are pursued and the future is embraced with open arms. So, here's to my 31st birthday, I am ready to conquer the next chapter of my extraordinary life.