it is a little different when you are an older black swinger with a belly to go with it. i won't talk about the nitty gritty of what i do but who i deal with it.
i have been a swinger for decades and just really active in the last 20 years or so.

i got started when i was 19 when i got into a club in new york city that let single males into the club. i didn't know what i was doing and didn't get much done. until i heard about this old now closed club called plato's retreat. i was back home visiting when i heard about it. i need a woman to go in the club with me and of course i didn't have one. so what did i do but ask my old girl friend. she said yes and off we went to go to the club.

i don't want to be censored so you can use your imagination. it was interesting walking around all these white people who were enjoying each other. my old girl friend and i did find someone to play with and it was a lot of fun.

this all took place before the age of aids. willy nilly and do what you liked to do. lol.

i only got in there one time and i tried to get in there another time on my own. i was down the street from there asking women to go with me but no takers. finally one of the men from the club came out to me and said even if i got some one to say yes he was not going to let me in. i heart broken but i left. i am not one to cause a scene.

i eventually moved to another city away from platos but i left the seed in another male friend of mine. he was a lot more adept at asking the ladies to go with him. he became a regular and had plenty of stories he would later tell me.

i got more to tell but i want to see how this goes over. i was sitting with my swinger friends last night and have a wonderful time talking about science fiction and sex and fully clothed at a party last night.

i have lots of stories i can tell. just don't want to step over the line. plus maybe no one wants to hear about this. i will come back in a day or two to see what comments i get here.

life living as a black swinger and other issues