What exactly it means to be related to someone what kind of importance they have in your life.
Relationships are most of the time happens according to your situation, circumstances, or by your needs and wants much more but some of basic most important or firstly things will check and it may not be according to our society ways its mostly naturalistic ways.
As soon as we are born as an infant, Mother is the first relationship you have Mother is the only main source for everything in your life for few years maybe till 4 or 5 yrs then Dad becomes more important and 2nd relationship starts to form and become stronger basically because men are supposed to be better in teaching about the outside world about how to live among others in this jungle so-called civilized societies whatever let it be about games, courage, social interactions, fighting with guys who bully you lot of manly things which is important in serving those skills will differ according to the place or societies you will in If living among saints you don't need skills which is useful to ppl who live among devils vise versa so don't confuse your self where to use what or use wrong teaching and examples in wrong places and blame others.
3rd relationship is if you have siblings and they are all kinds, reasons to become an important relationship is mainly they are also born for your parents so if you want or don't want they will be important relation, other then that fact they are the first one you explore the world with going to school, play, learn, fight, friends (if same age groups), competitors, or this shit that shit whatever shits its all the good, bad and the ugly all in the family for at least til your 5yrs
4th relationship is the secondary family you mom side or dad side they become your friends, sis, mentor accordingly to age. there is a high chance they may be related to your life till the end again it all change depending on the situation.
then the important relationship is your so-called friends maximum times happens according to your circumstances who will be neighbors or from your streets or school, mainly because you want to play utilize all the energy which is bursting in your or which wants to burst out and just play, play play, from morning till night till you completely tried, luckily that's how my childhood was and I had nice surrounding to explore and load of boys to play just like kids chimps in the jungle, we use to be in every street covering 5 to 6 street covering the almost whole area which might have had 20 street 6 were like our own rest were lil far but still friends were in almost places to play to explore and learning things which cannot be learned by family, So for few months one game will be a trend. for few months Marbles use to be famous all the kids from different streets after school few no school so all kinds of kids were there, direct to our streets it uses to be like tournaments, next few months will top toys which spin and luckily i had had best dad who use be there for me always he use make and give me and my friends best nails for the tops so i was always top in tops breaking many tops , cricket use tobe always on-off throughout the years. kites were crazy season the kids always on high always trying to be in the highest building in the area and from my rooftop I had access to two streets easily 15 to 20 house roof I use to go to catch the kites and our house use to connect multiple streets so going from one to another was kind of easy so it was fun for because I use to get lots of kites flying over my roof which gets cut and many time it will directly land on my roof so few of my friends use to always be on our roof. so our childhood was total psychical activities which i did not experience as an adult so much energy was crazy wakeup 8am go to school play learn, play learn, come back home at 4pm by 5 outside again playing outdoor games till we drop dead. so all the relationship we make while playing exploring outside in that only maximum of 10 kids will become close to you( again depends on the size of the group of kids playing) it's still young age to make friends accordingly so we may end up with a lot of true friends but as you grow it will all change according to your situations so the value and the importance of a relationship changes as we grow older.
So we have done making the 5th relationship successfully chance at least 1 or 2 will remain your friend no matter what till the end.
so till you become 14 or 15 years old, friends are the most important relationship, depending on the maturity of the brain, natural thing the brain does is to look for a partner in my case it was a girl whom I was attracted to and to become a man you need women or girl since that's how nature works this way, and I listened to my natural instincts found a girl and felt like a man among my small group and things changed and the importance of everything is changing everything was changing the understanding about my surroundings, it's not only because of the relationship its because I was growing older and many others things too. But most important is the things that happen to you mentally and psychically, especially when you grow up among a lot of boys living on roads playing doing boys things all day for years when a girl enters in your life and the emotion love kicks in new emotions which only a girl whom you love can give such emotions and perspective for life is different then any relationship you have made so far in life and if it becomes serious and the girl is committed in a relationship and you both become one and against the world like it will be and if parents or family is against them then that drama struggle the pain, happiness the intimacy and pleasure in a relationship is different and they are not even blood related to you and become so important in life you can't think life without them, but wait for your still 16 or 18 still not sure and life is just going to start changing, as soon as your enter adulthood things will change slowly and lots of things which you learned to survive for 18yrs will change completely things may be best or worst.
So now your new relationship is all good your used to it now next level so-called reality level where you need to learn to earn your living or may be your gf wants you to be successful or will have many reasons to change your current living standards, so you in that pursuive of happeniess you enter a world making money is the only motive for everyone you meet that's were new relationships starts.
professional relationship when your in startup business you need to meet lot of ppl for many reason mainly for finance or materials/products and you need to be convincing friendly and need have some decent level of communications and if you have like minded ppl with you it becomes easy to achieve things that's when you meet your kind of ppl who want to achieve things like you more or less but same kinds, these group relationships are more likely based on sucesss and failures and very rarely they will last if you don't sucessed, never to take very seriously with these kind of professional relationship try and keep it as professional as possible, its just professional, again not all there are some possibilities you will find good real ppl but maximum times its all about what you have to offer so they can give something in return, there's nothing wrong in being professional just dont expect much if you dont have nothing much to offer. striktly give and take police.
Somehow you manage to make some genuine relations now married, kids which I dont know much knowledge how as a father you will feel however when ever I see few unevolved pppl I feel like thier father at times I even feel father of humanity (have some humor in life when ever possible) still not necessary I should experienced something to understand so. As a parent for some the importance of relationship changes for few kids become their entirely solo purpose of being alive, they will do anything for them. so we are almost done with all kinds so these is boring topics nothing much to explore very limited kind of relationships you have and its easy to understand who means what in life if its not manipulated.
As a kid after losing my father I use to think I was the only one who is closet and no body knows him the way I did, in my case its parrcial right because I understood him more than anyone but in general if I see I might have been with him in his last days working with him from morning till evening, so I thought I was important person in his life and i have all the rights on him( as a young boy i used to think like that) so when i see through his perspective I might have been the helpful child who was there to help with his work and whatever a father will feel for his kids but I was not definitely the important person in his life according to the most important person might have been his partner love of his life whoever that was.
Same goes to women also the most important person is her partner with whom she shares everything life itself for some it can be few for some its just one and most of times its because of rules and regulations or force or compromise very rarely ppl will be happy with one.
These story i might have told many times but dont mind telling when ever i recall it, its about my friend's grandparents I guess there were many reason i started to belive in unworldy love those kinds of unrealstic relationship in today's era. they were only couple i have seen who were gods or holiest ppl that's how I feel when i think about them, they use to be so respectful to each other its nearly not possible to see such affection btw to ppl that grandpa might have been in his 70s grandma might have been 60s 0r 50s she use to call him father, he use to also respect her like her kid, he was pilot or navy man and he use to be interested in all kinds of topics including aliens ufos he use to have loads of books 40% house use to be filled with books. when he died that old lady just could not live anymore she blazed her self with kerosean and died and I was only there to wrap her up she was burnt so bad no one were touching her the impact made i guess i understood that time itself what kind of relationship is important in life however i was never even close to them in a relationship and its not even possible for ppl like us but for who so ever that happens they are luckiest ones, living life becomes better, easy with a nice ones.
again it all depends you cannot have same emotions 24/7 365days expect realistic relationship, unlike me and get manipulated but still everything is experience.
another self manipulative relationships/ imaginary relationship, especially while growing up we tend to make some movie stars or some celebs as our heroes and look up to them become a crazy fan and follow them blindly and expecting the same from them is the stupidest relationship expectations, we may end up making being wrong always, always remember they are normal people they have same emotions like you but they got talent which makes them likable on-screen characters but we expect them to abnormal of the screen also we expect them to act pretend to be good always no matter how bad thier mood is these are all stupid expectations in any relationship to expecting especially from ppl whom you're watching virtually whos profession is entertainment media who are also surviving as a human.
No matter what kind od relationship it will not reach its full potential with lies, manipulations or unrealistic expectations or even by force or compromise. its best if its natural and organic without expectations ok does not mean you don't have any expectations its natural for a man and woman to expect love from each other all kinds so try to keep it as natural as possible.
the relationship is not easy not we need a lot of sacrifices and lot of understand maturity, also with love and most importantly money also which can buy lot of happiness to your girl who loves shopping some shit but if that's what makes her happy so be it money is the best option to enhance love even life itself so don't be broke and expect love to last or even find love somehow it happens still without money it will not last long so be prepared.
So according to to your age the importance of relationship changes starting from your mother ending with your doctor or nurse, every relationship is important in your life as you grow older and die but not all relationship is same, lucky i was i had some good experiences with relationships but no twisted relationships or incest or any any after hidden relationship so i was always clear with how to be with whom i may be wrong but when i think about all the relationships I had i feel good and bad just like everything else in the universe so dont confuse your self that your the most important person to someone or they are most important person in your life and live that matters your father, mother, bros, sis, aunty uncle or friends they all are important but most important person will be with whom you share your intimate, personal, share everything in your life and you both become are part of each other and cannot think of living life without each other if you have not shared a relationship like this dont get confused in thinking your the most important person in thier life and make your life and others difficult, try to live as simple as possible with less complications as possible.
When provoked ent will also fight back and if you enter lions territory and fingering lion and the compliant lion is dangerous and harmed you or try to kill your stupid and dangerous to the lion it's not the lion's fault. irrelevant ending.