Me, as a Chinese girl, born and raised in China, but I don’t consider myself a traditional one. I am an YouTuber, posted many videos talking about interracial datings and my own dating experiences with black men.
I have been dating black men since 2012, and many of my friends from China were surprised and questioned me why I would date a black man. Most of them were negative. I have been always wondering why these traditional girls can’t accept black men, but I found them more attractive than any other races.
I did few interviews on some of my Chinese girl friends. Here are the few reasons why they never dated a black man:
- The family pressure. Their parents wouldn’t accept black men due to the social stereotypes, such as black people are lazy and violent.
- These traditional Chinese girls think that they can’t handle a black man. (Sexual wise) They think that black men are too big and strong for them.
- The appearance differences, such as the skin complexion and body shapes (muscly).
- The culture differences. Many traditional Chinese girls don’t understand black culture, such as hip hop, the dance and the black history.
I have had issues with the black men I dated, but I never defined them as same. I actually like men from all races. The reason I dated black men the most is because they are the more aggressive type. I don’t chase guys so aggressive guys do get my attentions more. It’s not like people always say “once go black, never go back”. It’s all about the personalities. :)