Welcome friends of steemit in this opportunity I announce a reflection that deals with those parents who act badly after a separation concubine that I hope and enjoy. "But first I tell them that my English is not very good".

There are situations in life when a couple tends to separate due to problems that occur in a relationship; where the result of that relationship is a child. Sometimes we wonder why it was different with my son when he lived with him or her. Because at birth a child is a blessing from God and joy comes from the highest, it is a teaching responsibility and we are anxious to support him and give him his diet so that he is a healthy and attended child. But that's only when a couple is united, and what happens when they separate? There are some parents who forget that they had a child with that person from whom they separated for other reasons, love and support are not provided, this is the story of many parents who stop being separated.

Many parents mistakenly think or imagine that the child no longer needs food, love, love, attention from that father figure that is so important for his development, since it influences in some way his emotional and cognitive growth. Without considering that a child is an innocent being who barely knows life and who needs to know good and valuable things, to start a life on the right foot.

These parents can not imagine the excitement and admiration that is felt when we fulfill that role as valuable as it should be; Showing love and attention is very easy for a father who loves the heart and the action.

Question of the child: Mom and dad, when will he come, will he not call me, will he not love me, can he have another child and forget about me? These are hard questions to answer for a mother because that depends on the father and not on her.

Sometimes we believe that due to a bad action we do, adults will not suffer the consequences, yes and a lot. Being a father does not cost that much; only time, love, attention, affection, communication and dedication, with this we would prevent the child from becoming a bored, rebellious and discouraged being. We would avoid so many mental imbalances and harmful attitudes, because even if a mother inculcates values ​​of good about respect, responsibility, honesty, tolerance, that child needs a father as patron of his actions.

An advice I give to those parents who are in the process of separation with their partners: do not abandon the most precious "children", do not deny the opportunity for these children to be happy and take good attitudes in life, be constant and be Attentive always and see that they show appropriate habits and a behavior worthy of admiration and respect. Let us be the example of your lives in a valuable way. "Our heavenly father never abandoned us, let us follow in his footsteps."