Ever wondered why you hug your teddies and listen to some crappy country music while your friends are out there in the night on a date with their so- called Mr. Special. When you find yourself while your friends are dating left, right, and center, and you probably asking yourself “What am I doing wrong?”, “Am I so ugly?” but you know you are more beautiful than that your friend that is being flocked around by guys asking her out. You just don’t seem to get why the guys aren’t coming for you and now you thinking, where is the escape route from all of this. Here are some helpful tips to turn things around and be the Girl guys wants to date.
• THE GIRL THAT UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INDEPENDENT AND SELF-RELIANT:
It is important and romantic to think of men as your shining armor but being over-reliant on a guy make you come off as a cheap girl thereby reducing your value and also chase guys from getting close. Remember it is a relationship, not a business opportunity so being independent does not mean you don’t need a man in your life but being independent makes you more attractive, valuable and challenging.
• THE GIRL WHO UNDERSTANDS APPEARANCE IS MUST
Although most people will agree that inner beauty is important but we don’t walk around wearing x-ray goggles so, therefore, we cannot overlook the importance of physical appearance, especially when creating a lasting first impression. You don’t have to have the figure of a runway model nor the beauty of Aishwarya Ria to get the attention of men because there are women out there not so beautiful but have men flocking and going on their knees for them asking for a date. What is their secret? Because they have mastered the art of grooming themselves. So dress appropriately and seek for fashion advice from people who have a good sense of style and also follow latest fashion trends online. You don’t have to expose your skin to attract men all you have to do is look classy and trendy.
• A GIRL WHO UNDERSTANDS THAT POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS A GOLDMINE:
A girl who understands and knows how to handle the imperfections of life and is contented, happy even if her life is not perfect. She does not carry bitterness around trying to affect people around her negatively. A woman / girl who avoids negativity and embraces a positive appearance and attitude is attractive. Always learn to smile and infect people around you with your positive attitude and watch men line up to ask you out on a date.
• GIRLS WHO UNDERSTAND THAT RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL:
No man wants a girl they can’t trust and with a lousy attitude. A woman who doesn’t respect herself is seen as a fling material or hookup material for the night than a dating material. The way you treat yourself clearly indicates on how you want to be treated and the kind of girl you are. Do you want to be a girl, guys want to date? Then, Respect yourself and you will earn the respect and admiration of others especially guys.