Have a girlfriend message ask you about your unilateral love for many years. But he does not love you and is cool.
So that girlfriend asked me why do people not like you again? Is she not beautiful or not worthy to have a love?
Then today, we talk a little bit about love! This is an indispensable and always painful topic in the lives of all of us.
Do you know, friends of the now no longer the original version? Life and experiences have programmed us into a new, worrying and calculating human being, always suspicious and judgmental.
When I was born, when I was a baby. You probably will not remember much. Run to neighbors or relatives to see. New born baby, very easy to laugh. I just tease a little is laughing guests.
Grow up a little, the baby began to know hug, know the cheek, know how to touch, love to say parents love. If they were scolded by their parents, then they did not remember anything.
The love of a baby is crying, there is laughter, anger, love. However, after all, only love is to stay in the soul. They keep giving love without responding.
If your parents have scolded or scolded that day, you still sleep in bed at night with your parents and sleep well.
The hearts of the children are great and tolerant. They always choose to live in love and dismiss negative thoughts.
I have been rejected.
Young people also type Hot Girl many people love. But few know that I was once rejected in love.
At that time I also struggled and hurt very much! At times, there are thoughts like, "Why are we so beautiful and so suited to people, but people do not love us?" "Are you so bad? Do not you have any good points? "
Man is that! Every time they are denied, they become abnormal. They do not find the right answer and blame themselves.
However, after a while I also forgot to be rejected. I still text message back and congratulate him every time new year comes.
I am busy studying and working. I invest more time in myself.
And then years went by when they met again. Although he complimented himself more and more beautifully, he did not have any strong emotions with that person. If the old praised like that is shedding it.
Turns out it was just a feeling of sunshine of youth.
I tell this rejected story not to let people comfort and scold the other guy offline. He is a very good person. Until now we are still friends.
What I want to say here is: "No matter who you are, beautiful or ugly, rich or poor, high or low status. You have lovers and people who do not love you. "
Our job is to accept this fact. Learn how to love all those who appear in your life. Be like those babies.
Have fun sleeping well after a long day no matter what happens.
So what is true love?
When you love someone, do not love blindly, love deeply.
What is blind love? Is defy all and become a slave of love. Do everything they ask or tricks to get the person you love.
Always want to be loved more than people love you. If you do not have love, you will suffer pain and even suicide.
What is deep love? Love is civilized and noble. Even if we do not love ourselves, they are still the ones who made us silently remember. So we will always cheer them up silently.
Encourage them to achieve a career and love someone more than love. Bless them. At the same time I will also study, focus on myself to become a better person.
If you are a supporting character, you also have to be a beautiful, excellent, and the best character! Being a cheerleader makes them the proudest!
So what is the lesson?
1. Love as a child. Innocence and brightly. Capable and "easy to forget".
2. If the person you love does not love you? OK fine. I still love them. Cheer and hope they are happy. Understand that maybe someone belongs to them waiting for them. And a worthy person is waiting for me.
3. Learn to love yourself before loving someone else. If you always blame yourself poor and ugly people have the right to do so with you. Improve yourself, study, go to work, take care of yourself and improve yourself first.
Do not waste time sorrow and eventually you will not love anyone.
4. If a person does not love us because the energy is not the same, not enough to attract each other.
So make your energy better, more attractive! This is the reason people love each other or get married so long there are many similarities!