So, as a heterosexual woman I've noticed a trend in guys near or around my age or younger than me..... (I'm 29) seem to be annoyed when i want to use a vibrator during the act! This has happened to me multiple times.
But when I am with an older and generally more shall we say experienced partner toys are welcome!
Here's the comments I've gotten from guys my age about use of vibrator during sex (again more than a few times this has happened):
- oh so my dick doesn't do it for you
- so you don't think I'm good at sex
- I thought you came when i ate you out
- the toy isn't natural you shouldn't need it
- I won't last as long if you use that
Okay either there is a general trend of guys in their 20's not confident in their manhood or they are just complete oblivious cavemen.
I mean I don't immediately whip out the vibe...but I do need it or some clitoral stimulation to orgasm. My most powerful orgasms are from vibrator stimulation and penile combined!
And I don't think i need to dredge up all the studies of how common it is for many women to need clitoral stimulation during sex.
So my question to the guys (or ladies) - what is the deal? Why would you be upset if I wanted to compliment your glorious penis with my vibrator? What could I potentially be doing "wrong " to make a guy feel that way?
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