To enjoy true inner peace we need to develop the attitude of being a silent and detached observer.Manything is happening in this world and truth is that neither we have control over everything or we can change anything.Something that is not to our concern, there is no need to keep ourselve involved.But it has been a habbit of us that we involve ourselves in everything and invite undue pressure into our mind.This takes us far away from the true inner peace,success and happiness which are our inherent qualities.We feel unrest ,and this is a common problem now in days for everyone.So to deal with this we can develop the attitude of being a detached observer. This means detaching from our body and listening instead to our soul,understanding ourselves as a soul.. The soul is our best friend, guide which show us the right way to be our master.It is a different conscient entity that drives this body like a driver drives his car.It plays his part through the help of this body. And whose natural tendency is to remain in peace.
We have to understand the hard truth is that this world drama is fixed, all are playing their respective role accurately. So how better we are playing our part that is important. And developing the attitude of being a detached observer and seeing every body’s role as they are and every situation as they are, can help us a lot to maintain our stability.
All the obstacles or difficulties arise when we became attached to particular ways of behaving or understanding to any situation .So if we have to enjoy our life or become successful in anything we do, we must think ourselves as a detached observer and find out the true cause of any situations. Then only we can find out the solution to any problem because our over involvement makes us more confused.
For a detached person challenges feel like a game. We are not emotionally involved in a situation. Detachment helps us remain calm in difficult circumstances, rather than becoming disturbed .It gives us the power to observe any situation no matter how difficult, just as we would observe game or watch a play.We feel light and enjoy the different turns that the play or game takes, we no longer feel trapped by the circumstances, instead we are able to face them rationally.
This attitude can helps us to use everything available to us in this outside world without becoming dependent but as a means of supporting our inner resources, rather than replacing them. And it can gives us the true happy in all circumstances .The best benefit of it is seen at the time when there is no external support, at that situation also we can remain happy. Because we have the power of detachment, we have already practice of not remaining dependent on anything or anyone else and maintain our peace and happiness.
Detachment adds quality to each and every action. When we are detached we are not bound by our action .We do things not depending on their result. Because we have this understanding that every action is followed by its equal and opposite results .This automatically increases the quality of the things we do. The more attached we are to a task the more effort we put in, but often this actually means we achieve less. But when we are detached we are able to give our best in all that we do. And this is followed by best result.
So stay detached and enjoy life.