Muslimah - God has three choices in matching people to each other. The first option is to quickly get a mate. The second option, slow to get a mate, but one day definitely get it in the world. The third option is not getting a mate in the world but get it in the hereafter. Whatever the choice of God-given mate, then that is the best thing for us.
Then what needs to be done so we immediately get a mate? Here are 7 ways to find a mate according to Islam, namely:
- Improve yourself
If we want to get a good mate, then we must be a shalihah too. That is the purpose of God in His word,
"The abominable ladies are for the abominable men, and the abominable men are for the abominable (also) women, and the good ladies are for good men and good men is for good women (also). They (the accused) are clean of what they are accusing (who accuse it). For them the forgiveness and the glorious provision (heaven) "(Surat an-Nur: 26).
- Do not despair in praying
Do not ever despair to pray. A good prayer for matchmaking is the prayer contained in Surah Al Furqon verse 74: "Our Lord, grant us our wives and our descendants as our hearts, and make us priests for the righteous" .
For more prayers to be answered, note also adab-adab pray in Islam. So do not pray according to our own version. Pray according to what Allah and His Messenger teach us, our prayers will surely be answered.
- Increasing Sunnah worship
In order for our soul mate to come faster, we also need to approach God with extra close. The way not only rely on mandatory worship, but also by adding sunnah worship like tahajjud prayer, dhuha prayer, shaum, recitations of the Qur'an, infaq, and others. Perform this sunnah worship regularly every day for our faith