Inspiring others will help them to make decisions. But what decisions do we make for them? From this article, you will find the 3 types of decision that I learned. Here it is.
• WISE DECISION (knowing love) this decision emphasize the loyalty or the trust that the person he/she giving up to. For example, when a long relationship with a man asking her girlfriend what food or drinks he wants. He will say anything that the girl orders.
He trusted her girlfriend for years because he knows that she will never put any poisonous chemical to be eaten or drink she will be given to him. And also, another example of waiting, A lady who has been waiting for her husband to come home even she has not been eating for a couple of time. She trusted the vow that his husband to come
home.
This example shows us to anticipate trust in our every decision and knowing the love of every situation we encounter. Even it is hard for us to strive for what we wait for our decision to happen, let it be and trust the person you have been trusted for how many years.
If you don't have any relationship, don’t be bitter of with your life, live a life with love. Also, I simply stated that we must trust until the end because a wise decision is learned by time and love, not by word.
• GOOD DECISION(ethics) this talks about moral values that you’ve learned when you were a child until now. If this decision is lack of ethics, picking decision will be hard for you. But we can’t tell coz every human in every error they commit they learned and improve themselves to be a better person.
• BETTER DECISION (situational) Now you’ve learned good decision. In a better decision, if you decide one decision there will be a good and bad outcome the decision that will lead to this action. You will take this decision risky however through gaining experiences and counseling with other experienced people can give you a better decision.
For example, a student that is not yet graduated in his college degree is focused on his part-time job. For how many years. He decided to go to church and take counsel from his priest. In part taking in his career and his work. he is 8 years from his degree but if his thesis can’t pass he will fall back to the 1st year in senior high school due to the law of the government implemented.
So, the priest giving him hope to concentrate in his studies and finish his college degree, the priest didn’t make a negative thought to him, he gives him a positive attitude and a chance to gain his career to the top. The inspiring lawyer student gives him hope and clears his mind. To shorten the story, he passed the thesis and thank the priest for giving him hope and never giving up on his career.
Now that you identify the 3 types of decision, I also hope that you can inspire people that is depressed, stress or people who don’t know what choice they will make. If there will be a time that you will be the crying shoulder of your kids, brother, sister or even your mother or father. Don’t hesitate to give time to their problems and give them hope and encouragement. Enlighten them with the words of God. And we must always trust them, also love them with all our hearts. Because this decision can make a wise, good and a better man.